How it sucks to be a good guy

So I always try to see the good in I. 10/11 it's not there at all.. I end up being fucked over because I try to give people the benifet of the doubt.
So I have been divorced for a little over 2 and half years. Since my whore of an ex wife I have been with two people and both of them stole almost everything I own. And for some fucken reason I can't stop thinking about my ex wife. Every day of every hour I am thinking of her.. I don't want to be back with her ever again. But I desperately need a distraction so I can get her the fuck out of my head!!!!!!