Crossdresser for Crossdressers

I am a retired professional married in the closet and want to stay that way/I am staight looking and acting but have a fem side. I like waering pnaties, stockings and lingerie. I also like men who dress and are fem.Must be discreet.. Love to meet another man, both us wearing panties under our male cloths. Like to kiss and cuddle. I'd like to try a double dildo with a man. Open to groups and threesome of any kind.I'm versatile