Sexual liberation...the university years
7 years after leaving Europe, here I was again in the capital of Belgium.
I was enrolled in ULB studying Management and Marketing and was staying in a student apartment complex near Tenbosh Park. My parents and little sister were just 2hrs drive away and my elder sister was doing her PhD at another university. I visited them 2-3 times a month and the rest of the time was enjoying student life.
Breaking up with N. made me reluctant to get in a commited relationship. I was a free spirit – enjoying life…having sex companions rather than boyfriends – no commitment – no issues. Parties were very common- almost daily – booze and recreational d**gs were around campus. I was in my rock and roll period – wearing dyed long hair- I already had a piercing in my nose since I was a teenager…in Brussels I had 2 more piercings in each ear + one in my left eyebrow. I was wearing dark, gothic makeup…torn jeans.
I was no different than the majority of students at that time…but I must say that it was in that period that my parents were worried about me. They worried that freedom was going up to my head…while not patronising, they did advise me about getting my life in order. But they didn’t need to worry…while on the outside I looked like a punk rockNroll junkie…on the inside I was still a cool girl. I did drink…but I developed an affinity for beer – Belgium being the world capital for that nectar… I also liked wine – but that was it…I wasn’t much into hard liquor …apart from the occasional tequila shots . I didn’t smoke – except for the occasional joint and never wanted to try out anything else. Once only during a trip to Amsterdam, we tried some mushrooms…but I got a bad trip from that…so I was pretty mellow. Studies were less tedious than for my A-levels…so I got through easily.
Brussels was ideally situated – couple of hours of train from Paris, from Amsterdam, from Frankfurt…and even if we so wished, we could catch cheap redeye flights to spain, Italy and London. ULB was a cosmopolitan university – with a high percentage of foreign students from all over the world and this cultural exchange was in itself a learning experience.
I hanged out with various groups and thanks to my easy going, fun loving nature, I was very popular.
The late 1990s were a great time to be studying in Europe – We had lots of fun. We made our ways to the various rock festivals around – the Leeds and Reading Rock Festival in UK, the Download festival in Germany and so many more. Springbreaking wasn’t a big thing in Europe as it was in USA, but we still took off some trips – with our backpacks over our backs…and we visited the many capitals and cities of Europe.
Sexually speaking, it was very liberating – I wasn’t the only one in the group not wanting committed relationships – both male and female and as such, it wasn’t uncommon for any of us to be having flings with friends….it was the concept of friends with benefits. I fucked guys of different nationalities – European, American, south American, African, Asian etc…. I collected all the colours of the rainbow.
And my sexual experience made me very popular…and respected!! Guys were always coming back for more…and afraid to displease me in any way. Females had been asking me for sexual advices…and I happily shared my knowledge…but however, it was not merely a question of knowledge…it’s a question of attitude…I mean, you can learn all you want about sucking cock…but if you don’t like sucking cock…you will never be a good cock sucker…same for anal sex…same for any kind of sex..you have to like it…and remove all taboos concerning it.
My cock sucking skills…my openness about sex...anal sex being a norm for me… my vaginal muscles and my propensity at sex in public places…made me very popular amongst the male students… I am sure some of the girls were quite jealous of me…but I made it a point to never go after guys whom I knew were in committed relationships…and furthermore, those who were and still propositioned me, I made it a point to tell their girlfriend about it…It wasn’t probably the nicest thing to do…but at least it earned me the respect of the girls.
I wasn’t the only woman who was sexually liberated, there was quite a few just like me… and I wasn’t the only ‘exotic’ woman as well…there was a girl from Ghana who had puffy lips that made guys drool thinking about blowjobs and an ass made for anal sex!! And she was very open sexually as well. She was a very nice girl and a good friend. You would have thought that most of our nights ended in sex parties…but that wasn’t the case…true, we ended up in each other’s bed most of the time…but it wasn’t full blown sex party!! Except when we came up with the Belgian roulette game!!
It got started when we had a heated argument about blowjobs… Some girls including myself claimed that we were BJ queens…and some guys argumented that they could retain themselves during BJ. We called their B.S and came up with this game…which we called the Belgian roulette. It involved 3 girls and 6 guys… The guys sat on chairs in a circle with the girls in the circle. The guys had their cocks exposed…and we girls had to give BJ using only our mouths and lips…hands were not allowed. And the guys were forbidden to apply pressure to our head or touch any of our body parts. So basically, we sucked on 3 guys at a time for one minute before moving to the next and hence the one that we had been sucking got 1 minute rest…and we moved along the circle…sucking each guy in turn. From the girls side…points were given to the one who got the first pop…and the one who got the most pops. Guys who came most were awarded points…and the last one to cum also got points. Forfeiting the game made you lose all your points. It was a fun competition and we did that many times…and I won many times.
My BJ techniques were exceptional + I was the only one who would be licking and sucking on the guy’s asshole. Guys loved it!! They opened wide their thighs whenever I came to sit in front of them. I had also perfected this technique, whereby while I was sucking on this guys dick, I would be looking hungrily and sultrily at the next guy in line, the one I would be sucking on in the next minute. And this worked marvellously…I was giving long distance BJs…and very often when it came the time for me to suck him…he was so excited that he came within seconds. Basically, the male and female winners of the game got to spend the night together. Gabriella the girl from Ghana also was a serious competitor…her puffy lips, her boobs and ass were like a porn star…and she had a very slutty look and an erotic voice… a couple of times she brought a guy to the edge just by looking at him and telling him how she would suck his cock.
We did have a couple of shared sex in a common place…but it was one on one…it was never gang bangs…not even threesomes…some did it, but it never appealed to me. Mainly because I had this problem of not being able to concentrate on more than one thing at a time.
I also experienced briefly my other side…i.e. sex with a woman. Nothing major…but enough to convince me that it wasn’t for me… It started off mainly under influence of alcohol and peer pressured games – It was mainly kissing..full mouth…tits playing and sucking. And once or twice masturbation. Once in a common bathroom, one girl went down on me. It was pleasant I won’t say no…but I found it icky… So I stuck to sex with guys
And sex in those days, with the scare of *** was always protected sex…the only non protected sex that we did was oral sex…otherwise...vaginal and anal sex always required the use of condoms…
It was great fun.
I was enrolled in ULB studying Management and Marketing and was staying in a student apartment complex near Tenbosh Park. My parents and little sister were just 2hrs drive away and my elder sister was doing her PhD at another university. I visited them 2-3 times a month and the rest of the time was enjoying student life.
Breaking up with N. made me reluctant to get in a commited relationship. I was a free spirit – enjoying life…having sex companions rather than boyfriends – no commitment – no issues. Parties were very common- almost daily – booze and recreational d**gs were around campus. I was in my rock and roll period – wearing dyed long hair- I already had a piercing in my nose since I was a teenager…in Brussels I had 2 more piercings in each ear + one in my left eyebrow. I was wearing dark, gothic makeup…torn jeans.
I was no different than the majority of students at that time…but I must say that it was in that period that my parents were worried about me. They worried that freedom was going up to my head…while not patronising, they did advise me about getting my life in order. But they didn’t need to worry…while on the outside I looked like a punk rockNroll junkie…on the inside I was still a cool girl. I did drink…but I developed an affinity for beer – Belgium being the world capital for that nectar… I also liked wine – but that was it…I wasn’t much into hard liquor …apart from the occasional tequila shots . I didn’t smoke – except for the occasional joint and never wanted to try out anything else. Once only during a trip to Amsterdam, we tried some mushrooms…but I got a bad trip from that…so I was pretty mellow. Studies were less tedious than for my A-levels…so I got through easily.
Brussels was ideally situated – couple of hours of train from Paris, from Amsterdam, from Frankfurt…and even if we so wished, we could catch cheap redeye flights to spain, Italy and London. ULB was a cosmopolitan university – with a high percentage of foreign students from all over the world and this cultural exchange was in itself a learning experience.
I hanged out with various groups and thanks to my easy going, fun loving nature, I was very popular.
The late 1990s were a great time to be studying in Europe – We had lots of fun. We made our ways to the various rock festivals around – the Leeds and Reading Rock Festival in UK, the Download festival in Germany and so many more. Springbreaking wasn’t a big thing in Europe as it was in USA, but we still took off some trips – with our backpacks over our backs…and we visited the many capitals and cities of Europe.
Sexually speaking, it was very liberating – I wasn’t the only one in the group not wanting committed relationships – both male and female and as such, it wasn’t uncommon for any of us to be having flings with friends….it was the concept of friends with benefits. I fucked guys of different nationalities – European, American, south American, African, Asian etc…. I collected all the colours of the rainbow.
And my sexual experience made me very popular…and respected!! Guys were always coming back for more…and afraid to displease me in any way. Females had been asking me for sexual advices…and I happily shared my knowledge…but however, it was not merely a question of knowledge…it’s a question of attitude…I mean, you can learn all you want about sucking cock…but if you don’t like sucking cock…you will never be a good cock sucker…same for anal sex…same for any kind of sex..you have to like it…and remove all taboos concerning it.
My cock sucking skills…my openness about sex...anal sex being a norm for me… my vaginal muscles and my propensity at sex in public places…made me very popular amongst the male students… I am sure some of the girls were quite jealous of me…but I made it a point to never go after guys whom I knew were in committed relationships…and furthermore, those who were and still propositioned me, I made it a point to tell their girlfriend about it…It wasn’t probably the nicest thing to do…but at least it earned me the respect of the girls.
I wasn’t the only woman who was sexually liberated, there was quite a few just like me… and I wasn’t the only ‘exotic’ woman as well…there was a girl from Ghana who had puffy lips that made guys drool thinking about blowjobs and an ass made for anal sex!! And she was very open sexually as well. She was a very nice girl and a good friend. You would have thought that most of our nights ended in sex parties…but that wasn’t the case…true, we ended up in each other’s bed most of the time…but it wasn’t full blown sex party!! Except when we came up with the Belgian roulette game!!
It got started when we had a heated argument about blowjobs… Some girls including myself claimed that we were BJ queens…and some guys argumented that they could retain themselves during BJ. We called their B.S and came up with this game…which we called the Belgian roulette. It involved 3 girls and 6 guys… The guys sat on chairs in a circle with the girls in the circle. The guys had their cocks exposed…and we girls had to give BJ using only our mouths and lips…hands were not allowed. And the guys were forbidden to apply pressure to our head or touch any of our body parts. So basically, we sucked on 3 guys at a time for one minute before moving to the next and hence the one that we had been sucking got 1 minute rest…and we moved along the circle…sucking each guy in turn. From the girls side…points were given to the one who got the first pop…and the one who got the most pops. Guys who came most were awarded points…and the last one to cum also got points. Forfeiting the game made you lose all your points. It was a fun competition and we did that many times…and I won many times.
My BJ techniques were exceptional + I was the only one who would be licking and sucking on the guy’s asshole. Guys loved it!! They opened wide their thighs whenever I came to sit in front of them. I had also perfected this technique, whereby while I was sucking on this guys dick, I would be looking hungrily and sultrily at the next guy in line, the one I would be sucking on in the next minute. And this worked marvellously…I was giving long distance BJs…and very often when it came the time for me to suck him…he was so excited that he came within seconds. Basically, the male and female winners of the game got to spend the night together. Gabriella the girl from Ghana also was a serious competitor…her puffy lips, her boobs and ass were like a porn star…and she had a very slutty look and an erotic voice… a couple of times she brought a guy to the edge just by looking at him and telling him how she would suck his cock.
We did have a couple of shared sex in a common place…but it was one on one…it was never gang bangs…not even threesomes…some did it, but it never appealed to me. Mainly because I had this problem of not being able to concentrate on more than one thing at a time.
I also experienced briefly my other side…i.e. sex with a woman. Nothing major…but enough to convince me that it wasn’t for me… It started off mainly under influence of alcohol and peer pressured games – It was mainly kissing..full mouth…tits playing and sucking. And once or twice masturbation. Once in a common bathroom, one girl went down on me. It was pleasant I won’t say no…but I found it icky… So I stuck to sex with guys
And sex in those days, with the scare of *** was always protected sex…the only non protected sex that we did was oral sex…otherwise...vaginal and anal sex always required the use of condoms…
It was great fun.
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