Edging

I like to fuck for a longish time. Say, 15 minutes to an hour. I enjoy the act. I like to watch my cock sliding in and out and if possible, I like my partner to cum multiple times in the process. That’s what I find satisfying sexually.
My wife is impatient. She wants to get it done and get on with whatever else is going on. She enjoys the lead up to cumming, but doesn’t want it to drag on. As soon as she cums, she wants me to get done and out of there. Being asked if you are going to cum is a turn off for me. Let me enjoy the moment!
Im sorry to say, I find sex with her to be unsatisfying.
So I’ve been taking every opportunity to edge my self. A hand full of “Skins” long lasting lubricant and some porn and I’ll sit for half an hour or more enjoying the feeling of the silky smoothness of the lube and my rock hard cock.
No climax, just edging. Keeping my self hard and near climax for as long as time will allow and then put myself away again until the next opportunity. Last time my wife and I fucked (or as she likes to say, I stuck my dick in her) the result was a quick climax for both of us and a load that we were both surprised by.
And as a still highly sexed 54 year old, this is working for me.