Ass stretching
I decided to use this blog to document my training on stretching my ass and include any lessons learned for others. I will add new blog posts as I progress.
So my interest in ass play has always been there, as it feels great! The reason for starting my anal stretching about 4 months ago was a pretty simple one - I wanted to fit a fist in my ass! Seemed crazy at the time as doing the math it meant at least 3 inch diameter or about 9 inches circumference and the largest I was able to take at that point was 1.75 inch diameter with some difficulty. So I basically would have to double what I could take currently!
I went online and bought several new toys designed to help stretch the anal muscles. And did a crap ton of research on how often to train. I have been training about 4 days a week for about 30 minutes or so. The best toy I have found to start each stretching session is an inflatable plug, which you can slowly increase in size to prep for larger toys. Lots of lube has been the key as well and recently I have found that using a syringe style lube applicator gets the lube up inside the fastest.
My goal was 0.25 inch of stretch every two weeks. Which with proper training schedule is a pretty reasonable goal and has been achievable so far. I started training full force early January where I was up to about 2 inch diameter, which had taken over 2 months to get to with intermittent training.
As of this blog post I am up to a 2.5 inch diameter toy and I was able get a fist toy up my ass the other day with a bit of pain.
Speaking on pain, it should not be a sharp pain, it should be more of a muscle stretching type feel, not pain. Usually pain means I find blood and have to back off on training. So always stop if you feel pain, it is your body telling you that you are going too far, and if there is blood you will have to wait to allow that to heal so it doesn’t lead to other health issues. So going slow is best, just train more days and know your limits.
Goal right now is to be at 3 inch by mid March.
One more item is how to insert the toys for training. If you are training with a partner it is a bit easier, but communication is key.
My wife is not into ass play, so I do my training on my own. I either sit on my toys or attach to wall if they have a suction cup. I found it is best to use a chair with arms on it to control your weight onto the toy, versus a toilet lid, which is good for thrusting onto a dildo. It helps to use a chair to sit on with a plug that has a tendency to come out, that way you can keep it in to enjoy! I had my biggest plug in the other day and had a massive orgasm sitting in my favorite chair!
If you have any questions or advice for me just leave a comment!
Current Toy list below, with dimensions (diameter, circumference in inches)
- conical plug, 2.5, 8.75
- multiple ball plug, 2.25, 7.5
- a few hollow plugs, one metal, one pvc; both 1.5, 5
- multiple length dildos, 1.5, 5, from 5 to 8 inches long
- life like dildo, 1.75, 5.5
- inflatable plug, max 2.5, 8.5
- toy fist, 2.75, 8
- big plug, 3.5, 11
2/19/2021 update- rough week of training, went too fast one day going to the fist dildo and got a little tear at the asshole opening I think as there was a little blood and minor pain. Had to back off the big stuff, just stuck to smaller plugs and some dildo work for depth training with slightly bigger diameter to get past the bend. Still enjoyable as I wore the hollow plug (see latest video) for several hours one day and practice some kegel exercises with the plug in. I have noticed some help by doing kegel exercises a few times a day. I have been doing 3/4 seconds holding and then relaxing doing a set of 10, doing that 3 or so times a day. Best time is in bed in morning and night, at least for me. These exercises have been good for relaxing the ass muscles and a nice side effect is some added distance to my cum stream, at least it seems like it.
2/28/2021 update- took it easy this past week, did not try to anything bigger, just stuck to 2 to 2.25 inch size toys. Feel healed up enough to go bigger this coming week!
3/5/2021 update- got back to 2.25 inch and ripple butt plug going in easy this week and almost back to getting the fist dildo- being more careful this time :). Found a new way to expand my training, two dildos at once! I took the small purple one and the next size up, black one and mounted them so I could get on all fours to work them in (versus trying to sit on them like I do the rippled butt plug). I tried mounting the two dildos two different ways, side to side and then top and bottom. My ass seemed to stretch easy top and bottom, but hard to do a video to see what is happening ;). The video I posted is the side by side attempt and as you can tell from the sound I made, it did feel incredible! The maximum diameter for those two dildos was almost 3 inches, but the circumference was less than the fist, so they went in easier than the fist! Next week maybe I’ll try two of the bigger dildos! And finally get that fist back in, mmmm can’t wait!
3/15/2021 update - past week was more as noted in first week in March. Plus I was able to get two of my bigger dildos in at the same time. Also tried to fit the smallest in with the other two, but keeping the other ones in and pushing a third in was more of a challenge than I thought! Even tried mounted on toilet seat. So any suggestions are appreciated!! I am also close to stretching my asshole to 3 inches using the big red plug, which is 3.5 inches total, still a few months out to get that monster in!!
3/19/2021 update- need minimal warm up to get the 2.25 butt plug in now. The fist is still a challenge, but it goes in a little better each time. Taking it slow to avoid setbacks due to a tear. Still doing about 30 minutes or more 4 days a week. Next week will be busy, so might not get 4 days in :(
4/3/2021 update- 2.25 butt plug works in easy, still stretching for fist dildo each day, which goes in but still takes effort. Bought some new toys to help get to the 3.5 inch monster. One is a double dildo , which has one suction cup to help with mounting and getting multiple dilldos in my ass. Another is a bigger clear butt plug that has a viewing hole! Last new one is a butt plug that will stay unlike the 2.25 inch one in have currently. Excited to work with these new ones this week. I’ll report back soon!
4/14/2021 update - new toys have been a lot of fun! New plug stays in place and feels incredible! The double dildo has made it much easier to work two dildos in at once, so ow I can give myself my own DP and it feels soooooo good! ;) The new hollow plug fits in nice and tight and really expands my ass well! I have been able to get the fist in quicker with less and less effort each day, and judging by my progress overall my ass is currently capable of 3 inches in diameter and between 8.5 and 9 inches in circumference. I’m truly amazed at my progress and only being 3 weeks off on my guess to 3 inches. So time for another goal, 3.5 inches by early June. The reason for longer than .25 inch every 2 weeks is that it gets slower as you get to the big stuff it seems. I will also be trying for 3 dildos at once, that I hope I can do in May sometime.
5/9/2021 - time for an update, been playing with double dildo quite a bit. Been trying to get a third dildo in with the double dildo, so far I can get just the head of third in, hard to hold third dildo though with all the lube ;). The fist dildo goes in real nice now and I do that at least once a day. I have noticed that clenching my anal muscles as I the fist/dildo is coming out it is easier to relax the muscles so it goes back in nice and deep! I also noticed that using long single dildos is a lot more fun to use fast and I can get them deeper, especially when I wiggle my ass around! I still have fun doing work at my desk with a dildo on the desk chair and going up and down on it with my asshole getting stretched and pleasured! I will sometimes sit in my desk chair with a thick dildo up my ass for quite some time to enjoy the stretching! Still doing 30 to 60 minutes of stretching at least 4 days a week. I did take a week off for my colonoscopy, haha!
8/1/21 - update time! It’s been awhile, so I’ll just go over my current routine. At least 4 days a week I will use the ripple plug to warm up and get up to 2.25 inches pretty fast. I will work the fist dildo in next. If I’m working on ass stretching I’ll switch to the new 3 inch diameter plug. Which I can get in, but it will usually rip me a bit, and it is such a full feeling I will take it out pretty quickly! I just received some new larger hollow plugs, which should help me train to get the 3 inch plug in easier.
So my interest in ass play has always been there, as it feels great! The reason for starting my anal stretching about 4 months ago was a pretty simple one - I wanted to fit a fist in my ass! Seemed crazy at the time as doing the math it meant at least 3 inch diameter or about 9 inches circumference and the largest I was able to take at that point was 1.75 inch diameter with some difficulty. So I basically would have to double what I could take currently!
I went online and bought several new toys designed to help stretch the anal muscles. And did a crap ton of research on how often to train. I have been training about 4 days a week for about 30 minutes or so. The best toy I have found to start each stretching session is an inflatable plug, which you can slowly increase in size to prep for larger toys. Lots of lube has been the key as well and recently I have found that using a syringe style lube applicator gets the lube up inside the fastest.
My goal was 0.25 inch of stretch every two weeks. Which with proper training schedule is a pretty reasonable goal and has been achievable so far. I started training full force early January where I was up to about 2 inch diameter, which had taken over 2 months to get to with intermittent training.
As of this blog post I am up to a 2.5 inch diameter toy and I was able get a fist toy up my ass the other day with a bit of pain.
Speaking on pain, it should not be a sharp pain, it should be more of a muscle stretching type feel, not pain. Usually pain means I find blood and have to back off on training. So always stop if you feel pain, it is your body telling you that you are going too far, and if there is blood you will have to wait to allow that to heal so it doesn’t lead to other health issues. So going slow is best, just train more days and know your limits.
Goal right now is to be at 3 inch by mid March.
One more item is how to insert the toys for training. If you are training with a partner it is a bit easier, but communication is key.
My wife is not into ass play, so I do my training on my own. I either sit on my toys or attach to wall if they have a suction cup. I found it is best to use a chair with arms on it to control your weight onto the toy, versus a toilet lid, which is good for thrusting onto a dildo. It helps to use a chair to sit on with a plug that has a tendency to come out, that way you can keep it in to enjoy! I had my biggest plug in the other day and had a massive orgasm sitting in my favorite chair!
If you have any questions or advice for me just leave a comment!
Current Toy list below, with dimensions (diameter, circumference in inches)
- conical plug, 2.5, 8.75
- multiple ball plug, 2.25, 7.5
- a few hollow plugs, one metal, one pvc; both 1.5, 5
- multiple length dildos, 1.5, 5, from 5 to 8 inches long
- life like dildo, 1.75, 5.5
- inflatable plug, max 2.5, 8.5
- toy fist, 2.75, 8
- big plug, 3.5, 11
2/19/2021 update- rough week of training, went too fast one day going to the fist dildo and got a little tear at the asshole opening I think as there was a little blood and minor pain. Had to back off the big stuff, just stuck to smaller plugs and some dildo work for depth training with slightly bigger diameter to get past the bend. Still enjoyable as I wore the hollow plug (see latest video) for several hours one day and practice some kegel exercises with the plug in. I have noticed some help by doing kegel exercises a few times a day. I have been doing 3/4 seconds holding and then relaxing doing a set of 10, doing that 3 or so times a day. Best time is in bed in morning and night, at least for me. These exercises have been good for relaxing the ass muscles and a nice side effect is some added distance to my cum stream, at least it seems like it.
2/28/2021 update- took it easy this past week, did not try to anything bigger, just stuck to 2 to 2.25 inch size toys. Feel healed up enough to go bigger this coming week!
3/5/2021 update- got back to 2.25 inch and ripple butt plug going in easy this week and almost back to getting the fist dildo- being more careful this time :). Found a new way to expand my training, two dildos at once! I took the small purple one and the next size up, black one and mounted them so I could get on all fours to work them in (versus trying to sit on them like I do the rippled butt plug). I tried mounting the two dildos two different ways, side to side and then top and bottom. My ass seemed to stretch easy top and bottom, but hard to do a video to see what is happening ;). The video I posted is the side by side attempt and as you can tell from the sound I made, it did feel incredible! The maximum diameter for those two dildos was almost 3 inches, but the circumference was less than the fist, so they went in easier than the fist! Next week maybe I’ll try two of the bigger dildos! And finally get that fist back in, mmmm can’t wait!
3/15/2021 update - past week was more as noted in first week in March. Plus I was able to get two of my bigger dildos in at the same time. Also tried to fit the smallest in with the other two, but keeping the other ones in and pushing a third in was more of a challenge than I thought! Even tried mounted on toilet seat. So any suggestions are appreciated!! I am also close to stretching my asshole to 3 inches using the big red plug, which is 3.5 inches total, still a few months out to get that monster in!!
3/19/2021 update- need minimal warm up to get the 2.25 butt plug in now. The fist is still a challenge, but it goes in a little better each time. Taking it slow to avoid setbacks due to a tear. Still doing about 30 minutes or more 4 days a week. Next week will be busy, so might not get 4 days in :(
4/3/2021 update- 2.25 butt plug works in easy, still stretching for fist dildo each day, which goes in but still takes effort. Bought some new toys to help get to the 3.5 inch monster. One is a double dildo , which has one suction cup to help with mounting and getting multiple dilldos in my ass. Another is a bigger clear butt plug that has a viewing hole! Last new one is a butt plug that will stay unlike the 2.25 inch one in have currently. Excited to work with these new ones this week. I’ll report back soon!
4/14/2021 update - new toys have been a lot of fun! New plug stays in place and feels incredible! The double dildo has made it much easier to work two dildos in at once, so ow I can give myself my own DP and it feels soooooo good! ;) The new hollow plug fits in nice and tight and really expands my ass well! I have been able to get the fist in quicker with less and less effort each day, and judging by my progress overall my ass is currently capable of 3 inches in diameter and between 8.5 and 9 inches in circumference. I’m truly amazed at my progress and only being 3 weeks off on my guess to 3 inches. So time for another goal, 3.5 inches by early June. The reason for longer than .25 inch every 2 weeks is that it gets slower as you get to the big stuff it seems. I will also be trying for 3 dildos at once, that I hope I can do in May sometime.
5/9/2021 - time for an update, been playing with double dildo quite a bit. Been trying to get a third dildo in with the double dildo, so far I can get just the head of third in, hard to hold third dildo though with all the lube ;). The fist dildo goes in real nice now and I do that at least once a day. I have noticed that clenching my anal muscles as I the fist/dildo is coming out it is easier to relax the muscles so it goes back in nice and deep! I also noticed that using long single dildos is a lot more fun to use fast and I can get them deeper, especially when I wiggle my ass around! I still have fun doing work at my desk with a dildo on the desk chair and going up and down on it with my asshole getting stretched and pleasured! I will sometimes sit in my desk chair with a thick dildo up my ass for quite some time to enjoy the stretching! Still doing 30 to 60 minutes of stretching at least 4 days a week. I did take a week off for my colonoscopy, haha!
8/1/21 - update time! It’s been awhile, so I’ll just go over my current routine. At least 4 days a week I will use the ripple plug to warm up and get up to 2.25 inches pretty fast. I will work the fist dildo in next. If I’m working on ass stretching I’ll switch to the new 3 inch diameter plug. Which I can get in, but it will usually rip me a bit, and it is such a full feeling I will take it out pretty quickly! I just received some new larger hollow plugs, which should help me train to get the 3 inch plug in easier.
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