Covid marriage

A and I have been flirting with the idea of going to swingers parties and our local snm groups. Then covid happened!!! Dont get me wrong, i am happy, we have been together 8 years and I love him fiercely. But there is an itch both admit we need to scratch. Couples that play together stay together ❤. Post covid can any of you recommend where to go. We both want to explore the swinging lifestyle more. This is new to us, and I can't believe I've put my thoughts on a porn site.
Love to you all S xxx