Girls and cum...
So, I have asked this question a fair number of times and I don’t seem to get a consistent answer. And maybe there is no “one” answer. Here is the question: “Do girls like seeing / tasting / being hit with cum?” I do like dumping inside a girl too, especially if we are cumming together. But, I maintain a standing rule that the girl has to cum at least two times (most on the time it’s three) before I let myself go.
That being said, I will end up cumming at the end of our session, and I have been blessed with being able to create a real mess. Now in my early 50s, I can still “bring the flood” if my balls are full. (Back in my middle 20s and early 30s, I would make Peter North say: “Damn!” Ah, those were the days...) My wife at the time was happiest when I cream-pied her. (I got married at 32, then divorced at 43.) Nearly all of my partners were fine with me pulling out and shooting on their belly or back.
Of all the women that I have been with, only one told me they were “disgusted” by the sight of so much cum. (You can guess that we didn’t stay together for too long.) I’ve had a few requests that I give them a facial, but that was after I asked them: “Where do you want it?” I think they told me they wanted a facial, because that’s what I wanted. (Mind you, they don’t all need to be facials.)
Truth be told, I love busting my load on tits and many times, I told my lover that’s where I wanted to aim it. Most were perfectly fine with that too, and some really enjoyed it. However, a few seemed “afraid” of being hit in the mouth / face by a wayward overshoot. (And that happened quite a few times.) From those, I heard the phrase: “Make sure you don’t miss.” A reposition to the side fixed everything.
Only three girls seemed “delighted” being hit *anywhere* with cum- including in their mouth or down their throat. And they were not shy in expressing an appreciation for what I could offer. Of course, those women were the best lovers I ever had. (I regret I didn’t ask one of them to get married, but that’s another story...) In my experience, that translates to roughly less than 1 in 10 that “love” cum. I’m not counting one-night-stands though that might skew the numbers a bit- all of those used rubbers. And I can recall a few times I asked to finish “sans rubber” to blow my wads on their tits. No one ever objected to having their breast being coated. Though some of them will remark: “Why do guys like cumming everywhere but in our pussies?”
I’ve never been comfortable with just “receiving”. Ie: handjobs and blowjobs from a partner that didn’t get something in return. (Maybe that’s where some of this gets skewed too.) For example, if I got a handjob in a car, my hand had to be in her pants too. The “cum loving” girls were the ones most likely to offer to please me without me asking. I genuinely think they wanted to do it for their *own* enjoyment. They truly loved liberating me of my loads.
Mutual masturbation is something I like too. It’s fun to change things up and “perform” for her while she does the same for you. I could tell some girls were never comfortable with this scenario; they wanted things the good old fashion (boring) way. Again, I held back until my partner got-off first. But those unabashed “cum lovers” *always* wanted me to dump on them when I climaxed. It helped them to get-off a second, or third time. And here was the real turn-on: they all wanted my dick in their mouth as I came, or to bust my nut on their face as they rubbed one out. Those sessions were always hot for us both. I love watching girls masturbate. (There, I said it.) Further, those same girls couldn’t wait to unload me again. Either in a subsequent HJ, BJ, tit-fuck, you-name-it or just plain intercourse.
Here is where it gets interesting. Several years ago, at a party, I was in the company of five women. I was the only male in our circle. I gathered, some of them knew each other, while others were strangers. We had all been drinking and our tongues were pretty loose, and this subject came up. (How lucky was I, huh?) I said nothing; I just wanted to listen. One of the girls confessed to “love having her face plastered”. My guess was she was the youngest one there. I looked at the others, trying to gauge reactions. Then two other women joined in the sentiment: “Who doesn’t?!” I saw them looking at me for a reaction. Once again, I stayed quiet and emotionless for a reason: I wanted to hear the truth, and didn’t want to influence anyone.
By now you might see the discrepancy. 60% were claiming to “love” cum, while my personal experience suggested it was just around one percent. I chalked it up to “drunk-talk”, and a little bit of one-up-man-ship. Maybe one of them was a true cum-slut, but 3 out of five? No way. Now, I will tell you that those women were younger than me, by my guess more than 10-15 years. Have attitudes changed in just a decade or so? You tell me.
Obviously, this is not a conversation that comes up often with face-to-face strangers. I’m not one to bring it up unless I have been with that person. Although, it becomes apparent who really likes cum and who doesn’t... So, here is my very unscientific breakdown, and I’m will to entertain changes to these observations based on feedback.
General female population:
< 2% True “cum-sluts” (Can't get enough)
12% Like cum (Like tasting / being painted)
20% Tolerate cum (Likely to be spitters, indifferent to being hit in the face, by someone they care for. Enjoy body-shots.)
45% Don't prefer it. (Indifferent to body shots, but don't like facials, or in the mouth. Even if you go down on them regularly.)
16% Don't like it. (Don't even want to see it, and they will tell you.)
5% Grossed out by cum. (Wished it didn't exist.)
That being said, I will end up cumming at the end of our session, and I have been blessed with being able to create a real mess. Now in my early 50s, I can still “bring the flood” if my balls are full. (Back in my middle 20s and early 30s, I would make Peter North say: “Damn!” Ah, those were the days...) My wife at the time was happiest when I cream-pied her. (I got married at 32, then divorced at 43.) Nearly all of my partners were fine with me pulling out and shooting on their belly or back.
Of all the women that I have been with, only one told me they were “disgusted” by the sight of so much cum. (You can guess that we didn’t stay together for too long.) I’ve had a few requests that I give them a facial, but that was after I asked them: “Where do you want it?” I think they told me they wanted a facial, because that’s what I wanted. (Mind you, they don’t all need to be facials.)
Truth be told, I love busting my load on tits and many times, I told my lover that’s where I wanted to aim it. Most were perfectly fine with that too, and some really enjoyed it. However, a few seemed “afraid” of being hit in the mouth / face by a wayward overshoot. (And that happened quite a few times.) From those, I heard the phrase: “Make sure you don’t miss.” A reposition to the side fixed everything.
Only three girls seemed “delighted” being hit *anywhere* with cum- including in their mouth or down their throat. And they were not shy in expressing an appreciation for what I could offer. Of course, those women were the best lovers I ever had. (I regret I didn’t ask one of them to get married, but that’s another story...) In my experience, that translates to roughly less than 1 in 10 that “love” cum. I’m not counting one-night-stands though that might skew the numbers a bit- all of those used rubbers. And I can recall a few times I asked to finish “sans rubber” to blow my wads on their tits. No one ever objected to having their breast being coated. Though some of them will remark: “Why do guys like cumming everywhere but in our pussies?”
I’ve never been comfortable with just “receiving”. Ie: handjobs and blowjobs from a partner that didn’t get something in return. (Maybe that’s where some of this gets skewed too.) For example, if I got a handjob in a car, my hand had to be in her pants too. The “cum loving” girls were the ones most likely to offer to please me without me asking. I genuinely think they wanted to do it for their *own* enjoyment. They truly loved liberating me of my loads.
Mutual masturbation is something I like too. It’s fun to change things up and “perform” for her while she does the same for you. I could tell some girls were never comfortable with this scenario; they wanted things the good old fashion (boring) way. Again, I held back until my partner got-off first. But those unabashed “cum lovers” *always* wanted me to dump on them when I climaxed. It helped them to get-off a second, or third time. And here was the real turn-on: they all wanted my dick in their mouth as I came, or to bust my nut on their face as they rubbed one out. Those sessions were always hot for us both. I love watching girls masturbate. (There, I said it.) Further, those same girls couldn’t wait to unload me again. Either in a subsequent HJ, BJ, tit-fuck, you-name-it or just plain intercourse.
Here is where it gets interesting. Several years ago, at a party, I was in the company of five women. I was the only male in our circle. I gathered, some of them knew each other, while others were strangers. We had all been drinking and our tongues were pretty loose, and this subject came up. (How lucky was I, huh?) I said nothing; I just wanted to listen. One of the girls confessed to “love having her face plastered”. My guess was she was the youngest one there. I looked at the others, trying to gauge reactions. Then two other women joined in the sentiment: “Who doesn’t?!” I saw them looking at me for a reaction. Once again, I stayed quiet and emotionless for a reason: I wanted to hear the truth, and didn’t want to influence anyone.
By now you might see the discrepancy. 60% were claiming to “love” cum, while my personal experience suggested it was just around one percent. I chalked it up to “drunk-talk”, and a little bit of one-up-man-ship. Maybe one of them was a true cum-slut, but 3 out of five? No way. Now, I will tell you that those women were younger than me, by my guess more than 10-15 years. Have attitudes changed in just a decade or so? You tell me.
Obviously, this is not a conversation that comes up often with face-to-face strangers. I’m not one to bring it up unless I have been with that person. Although, it becomes apparent who really likes cum and who doesn’t... So, here is my very unscientific breakdown, and I’m will to entertain changes to these observations based on feedback.
General female population:
< 2% True “cum-sluts” (Can't get enough)
12% Like cum (Like tasting / being painted)
20% Tolerate cum (Likely to be spitters, indifferent to being hit in the face, by someone they care for. Enjoy body-shots.)
45% Don't prefer it. (Indifferent to body shots, but don't like facials, or in the mouth. Even if you go down on them regularly.)
16% Don't like it. (Don't even want to see it, and they will tell you.)
5% Grossed out by cum. (Wished it didn't exist.)
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