I guess I'm not attractive or handsome.

I have been getting a little upset since started dating, So far haven't hookup any women attractive to or want to buy things and take care of them, or just want money for sex. I haven't found anyone who wants a relationship, Or they want to keep it secret from their wife, which isn’t necessarily because we are polyamorous. I just don't get it. I guess I'm not attractive or handsome.