Negging

"Negging (derived from the verb neg, meaning "negative feedback") is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval."

- My question has anyone ever tried this out, gay on gay, gay on straight, and has it worked? I myself got negged by a gay coworker, and have been fantasizing of him taking me and seducing me for years; and look for him on internet now. So just wondering...