Just a quick PSA.

Just a quick PSA.
So, something I have noticed is a number of males who contact us on multi-platforms, only want to sleep with my wife. She doesn't let me put pictures up unless the site is private and she over 50 have has issues with men, she puts up with me. She a cancer survivor as well.
She has outright told me she just wants females around the house and she has no interest in sex anymore.
Why can't men respect what she wants, she nothing no issues deciding if she pansexual, bisexual, and now she thinks she non-binary? She wants to figure herself out.
Polyamory is not about sex, it is also about deep relationships and communications with your partner or partners.
This is a very important point, My wife and I read the books and watched and listen to podcasts before coming to the decision to be poly and it has its consequences.
We had friends, no longer want to be our friends, and family members, not won't speak to us anymore. There negatives to this lifestyle.
Please, don't become polyamorous because you want a reason to say you can have sex with multiple people.