Thinning out my contacts

I’ve decided to thin out my contacts list.

I correspond regularly with just a handful of people. I don’t see the point in maintaining a list of people I talk to once then never again.

If you want to remain on the list, or be removed, please say so.

I will leave it for a few days, see if anyone complains about being removed, then I’ll start again asking everyone individually if they want to remain on the list or not.

Recently I’ve become very disillusioned with this scene, other sites, and attitudes. I’m heartily sick of being used like an unpaid prostitute by men for 10-30 minutes of very uninteresting, dispiriting, unfulfilling sex, for them to then run off before I can lower my backside to the bed, for them to vanish never to be seen again. I’m sick of that.

Conversation is a dead art, seduction a distant dream, and any thoughts of a meaningful relationship I’m just deluding myself.

This is one of my positive days, you should see the other version I had in mind.