It's a look

I was looking through pictures lately on here, and realized that most of my favorites are not of women spreading their charms wide, but more those of sexy women - women who just look sexy. It's in the eyes, in the body language; that thing that says, "I'm not above doing whatever it takes to have a good time."

She may not be gorgeous, not young. Not even a great body, but just a 'normal' build. But in her eyes, there is no doubt that she's up for some fun. To me, this is the sexiest thing of all. I have realized that that's what I find attractive, and what's been missing in my own marriage for years. My wife used to give me that 'look', and I knew immediately what was on her mind. I wasn't always on the same page - that's part of the day-to-day of marriage. When I was, it was so erotic! I haven't seen that look in a long time, since her medical issues.

I'm not complaining about that. That's life. What I do enjoy now is occasionally seeing that 'look' on ladies, and knowing what they're thinking. I'm usually thinking the same thing, perhaps because I do miss seeing it on my own wife. I only know that when it happens, and when I'm able to respond and we connect, it's still the most erotic thing imaginable! 90% of sex is, after all, in the mind.