Introducing Cuckolding Into a Relationship

As much as many men may fantasize about it, true cuckolding remains a rarity among long term married relationships due to fear. Fear of communicating with each other their sexual wants and needs. Many long term relationships could possibly be sexually rejuvenated by having conversations about either swinging or cuckolding. There are many potential problems that could be created by bringing other sexual partners inside a marriage, especially in the “cuckold’s” case for the husband who may already be struggling with sexual performance or other marital issues. To help counter his uncertainties, there has to be a deep love and and understanding of what is expected by both parties involved. If the wife is to basically be given her sexual freedom, she bares a huge responsibility to make sure that her husband is constantly reassured and always first in her thoughts. I think for many women, this may become a difficult thing once they have tasted sexual freedom and this eventually becomes a problem for many “cuckold” relationships. Many women may start fighting some feelings of guilt or shame and place blame back on the husbands for engineering the situation. Some women may be relatively satisfied with partners outside the relationship, yet come to not feel as connected to their husbands either sexually or emotionally leading to a lack of common communication. Husbands may not understand the emotional overload their wives are experiencing and become selfish, overly needy or chil6ish with their concerns. Here, in order for the relationships to survive, it must fall on the women to be aware, take the men’s feelings into account and be the communicators and the relationship leaders as they are the ones being allowed to more or less mate freely with other individuals and the men are not. Done in the right way however, I think many wives would be surprised at how many husbands would be happy to actually see them sexually satisfied. Think of how many marriages whose overall quality would be improved! Wives and husbands who would not be constantly unhappy with each other due to lack of sexual attention. I wish more women would at least be open to the idea of discussing sexual options such as taking sexual partners outside the marriage or putting their husbands in chastity in order to improve their sexual behavior freely with their husbands. So many are not.