Meeting up

Is it unrealistic to think that there is a bisexual man who would want to get together for sex and enjoy the pleasures man on man sex can deliver? I have tried for such a long time to find a nice guy to meet up with and enjoy being naked with them and taking turns making each other feel good. Then after it’s over sit around and talk and maybe try to do it again. I have been told I am being way too unrealistic and I was wondering if anyone else felt that way too. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hear what you think.