Things to think about while getting a blowjob

Things to remind myself about while getting a blowjob:
Remind yourself of what a good cock sucker you have working on you right now. How lucky you are to have her as your own.
Tell her what a good job she is doing sucking your cock for you. Tell her she's the best, not just for flattery, but because it is actually true.
Do your best to give her a nice, big hard prick to suck on. It gives her a boost to know what she can make your cock do.
Ask your soul to feel what your lover is doing for you right now. Appreciate the fact that deep down inside, she loves you and loves to please you, so direct her to do what feels best for you. You have been invited to use her soft, warm mouth as your willing fuck toy.
Do your best to appreciate what is happening to you right now.
Tell her again how sexually turned on you are right now. Tell her what your cock is feeling. How good that tongue of hers feels licking your prick like that. It will make her try even harder to give you the best head you've ever had. Remember, she is enjoying this, too!
Strive to get that “on the edge of cumming” feeling. That is the ultimate blowjob feeling, after all. Ride the edge for as long as you'd like. Don't make cumming the goal. Riding the edge feels almost just as good as cumming, and it lasts longer. Tell her that this is the state you're in. She will do her best to keep you there, if that is your wish.
When you have committed to cumming, try to mentally ride the silvery wave over the edge, then observe and appreciate your relatively short time in this place. Determine to write about it, if you can.
When finally finished, praise her for the love she feels for you.
Follow her lead, as to what happens next!