How to approach a female swinger on Xhamster

Hi Guys, here is my guide on how to approach us.

Lets look at some do's and don'ts.

Do

Be polite
Ask pertinent questions
Be respectfully open and honest Read through the profile first
Asks respectful questions
Be patient
Be prepared to show your face pics and body pics in the first few messages

Don't

Send a one liner like hey sexy or do you take it up the arse
Be crude
Be disrespectful
Message without reading the profile in full first
Assume that just because you have messaged that it means that you are in

Please whatever you say be prepared to take no thank you for an answer as not everyone is a match.

We are humans just like you, no some race of single track minded pervs who just are waiting for you to grant us access to your body. Swinging is just like any other hobby r past time, something you do with like minded people for enjoyment. If you wouldn't say it to someone's face don't send it in a message is a good way to start with.

Why not try with something polite and imaginative, say what has attracted you in the ad and what your aims are. People do not generally want to go on and on in emails but please do not expect someone to want to meet you after one quick email.

Most of all just be yourself and have fun, that is what its all about...

Em xx