Some thoughts on getting fucked anon

I love getting fucked anon. I don't always do the traditional thing - y'know, the standard motel dark-room setup with me jockstrapped ass up face down and pump n dumped by whichever 40s bi/curious married white guy (this demographic is overwhelmingly the norm everywhere) that responds . Sometimes I just want a cock inside me, like craving take-out for dinner. Maybe it's my ADHD or being an introvert but social stuff exhausts me. Even the seemingly benign pre-fuck small talk before a hookup is a bit of a stress for me. That's why anon is awesome. It's like, let's fast-forward through all the bulky preamble and uncertainties and get straight to the meat of the matter - a raw cock in a warm willing hole. That's it. I'm not a submissive person nor do I think getting fucked anon as being part of a submissive dynamic, though you'd probably disagree with me on that. I mean, yeah to any 3rd party looking on, it would seem that I'm just a cumdump providing my hole to be used by a stranger, and yeah they wouldn't be wrong. But in my perspective and experience, I don't feel dehumanized or devalued in this dynamic at all. The situation is by my own agency and I'm using the top to get his cock and cum in as much as (or possibly more than) a mercenary way as he's using me for a tight hole to cum in. I just want a cock for the evening, nothing else (don't really care about the rest of him) and likewise, for the evening, I just want to be a hole, nothing else.

Having said all of that, once when I was passing through Saskatoon, a top showed up in response to my anon ad- white 30s hairy roughneck kinda guy (didn't see his face until years later when we chatted) and we made love like our bodies were perfectly fitting puzzle pieces, and it was amazing. We even chatted post-coitus in the dark about everything, cuddled and made out. If I were to fall asleep like that every night for the rest of my life as comfortable and connected as I was then, I'd be happy I think. Unfortunately, it wasn't meant to be, as I don't live in Saskatoon after all. But, he still stands out to me in my memories and possibly in my top 5 best chemistry rankings. So, who'd a thunk eh? Maybe if chemistry is strong enough, it can surmount the minimalism of an anon sex scenario.