Why I send a friend request to you

I am here to learn new kinks and get inspiration for playing at home. When I am going through someone's favorites and I see things which turn me on or match what I already have collected, I look through the comments. What is posted there says a lot a person. They might say exactly what I was thinking about the video, be drawn to the same things about it or say something which shows them to be a kindred spirit. I link over to their profile and check them out. If I think they have a good overlap of interests I will send a request. I have a fairly organized collection of favorites and I think they find some stuff there that they might find interesting.
Lately I have been more careful reading the profiles. I have gotten some angry reactions from a simple friend request, like I insulted them or something.
Please, if you get a request and do not wish to accept it, just delete snd ignore me. I am not trying to hookup to fuck like a lot of people here do, I have a very satisfying sex life already with someone who gets me. We are an exclusive couple and have no interest in adding a third or either of us joining an outside hookup.
If you get a friend request, it is just because it looks like we have similar interests and I like what you have shared...