Question for the women

So before i get to the question, a little story time. So as some people know I havent had sex in about 10 days or so now. With my gf out of town, i have a greenlight to get some (although no breeding allowed according to her), and i got a tinder date last night. So went on the date, made it back to her place and we were making out. When she pulled my cock out and saw it, her eyes got huge, and said "oh hell no, that thing isnt touching me" and asked me to leave. I asked what was up, and she said that it was too big for her and that it would hurt too much, and asked me to leave and apologized for wasting my time.

So now question time. Ladies, What is too big for you, and even if it was too big and you didnt want to let it fuck you, would you still at least get him off? or would you do as she did and ask me to leave?