Replying to everyone's messages

I apologize if I haven't responded to anyone's messages. I seriously try to reply to every single one, but I have over 4.1k messages I haven't read yet. I'm usually on my Youtube or Twitter goofing off, or sometimes Insta, which takes up most of my down time. Then if I come here I mainly just masturbate, then I go back to Youtube or whatever, so I miss a lot of messages. But I will try to respond, but if I take forever, you know why.