Premature Ejaculation
This is not uncommon amongst males. It certainly was a problem for me when I first had sex with a girl. I spunked within 15 seconds of penetration and that was with a condom.
When I came to analyse this in later years, I soon came up with the reason. From the first act of masturbation, my objective was to get to the thrills of orgasm as quickly as possible. Masturbating three times a week, sometimes more often, my sexual system honoured my objective from the age of 12. Having reached 19, it knew no other and so the infamous premature ejaculation was born in circumstances where it wasn’t wanted. Between that and my first marriage, my masturbation technique was still the same (whip it out, wank it off, wipe it and put it away).
My experience with boys of my age was similar, they all wanted to cum as soon as they could. My older contacts were usually similar.
My first wife had great difficulty in getting an orgasm from a normal fuck. So, it was finger fucking and a vibrator for her to achieve one. My second wife is best forgotten as we weren’t suited in other ways.
My third partner was great and she told me that she had trained herself to have a quick orgasm (I never asked her how!) Paradoxically, by that time I was 50, and so Nature had taken its grip on my sexual system and I could last as long as I liked. We enjoyed the differences.
Currently, I will take at least 5-6 minutes to get an orgasm when masturbating from soft. I can masturbate for a very long time if I want to, without getting to the final thrills.
No doubt, others will have a different experience/history to mine, as we are all different and have different circumstances.
When I came to analyse this in later years, I soon came up with the reason. From the first act of masturbation, my objective was to get to the thrills of orgasm as quickly as possible. Masturbating three times a week, sometimes more often, my sexual system honoured my objective from the age of 12. Having reached 19, it knew no other and so the infamous premature ejaculation was born in circumstances where it wasn’t wanted. Between that and my first marriage, my masturbation technique was still the same (whip it out, wank it off, wipe it and put it away).
My experience with boys of my age was similar, they all wanted to cum as soon as they could. My older contacts were usually similar.
My first wife had great difficulty in getting an orgasm from a normal fuck. So, it was finger fucking and a vibrator for her to achieve one. My second wife is best forgotten as we weren’t suited in other ways.
My third partner was great and she told me that she had trained herself to have a quick orgasm (I never asked her how!) Paradoxically, by that time I was 50, and so Nature had taken its grip on my sexual system and I could last as long as I liked. We enjoyed the differences.
Currently, I will take at least 5-6 minutes to get an orgasm when masturbating from soft. I can masturbate for a very long time if I want to, without getting to the final thrills.
No doubt, others will have a different experience/history to mine, as we are all different and have different circumstances.
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