From Asian Love to Irish Heat: My New White BF

So, something kind of big has happened—my new boyfriend just moved in with me. He’s Irish and white, which is actually a first for me. I've always dated Asian men before, mostly British-born Asians. I’ve had white guys ask me out in the past, but I never really gave them a chance. Honestly, I always felt like they were just after one thing—and that was sex.

But this one is different. There’s something about him that reminds me a lot of my exes, in a good way. He has the same kind of depth, the same kind of groundedness. It’s not just surface-level attraction or some wild fling. He’s thoughtful, kind, and emotionally present in a way I wasn’t expecting. It’s been refreshing—and surprising—in the best way.