How do I find a kinky Girlfriend? (part 1)
"How do I find a kinky girl like Serena?" Is a question I read every day. Here's the answer:
They're everywhere, hiding in plain sight.
But there's a catch: If they think you're trying to "find a kinky girl", they will go deeper into hiding. They do not want a man who is looking for a kinky girl. This is why they're so hard to find, and why trying to find them is a fool's errand. Instead, you have to change your mindset and let them come to you.
Most people tune out after I tell them this - it turns out they wanted an easy button!
"Fie, wonneth't a kinky manic pixie dream wench falleth from the sky onto mine own cock!" is the attitude many men have.
Well if you want an unconditionally generous mother figure who will gift upon you all the kinky sex because you so deserve it: Get an e*****. There's a reason why they get paid - they're fulfilling the client's fantasy, not their own.
So the real question is "How do I let kinky women find me?" There are two answers: Start a cargo cult that attempts to summon kinky girls by ritualistic mimicry, or change your perception of the world.
And here's the second part where I lose people.
"Most women are more kinky than most men"
Accept this as axiomatic or reject is as hogwash. Either one becomes a self-fulling prophecy. Your perception makes up your reality. Stop looking for kinky women and start looking for women with whom you can share an authentic connection. The kink will follow.
- Leo
They're everywhere, hiding in plain sight.
But there's a catch: If they think you're trying to "find a kinky girl", they will go deeper into hiding. They do not want a man who is looking for a kinky girl. This is why they're so hard to find, and why trying to find them is a fool's errand. Instead, you have to change your mindset and let them come to you.
Most people tune out after I tell them this - it turns out they wanted an easy button!
"Fie, wonneth't a kinky manic pixie dream wench falleth from the sky onto mine own cock!" is the attitude many men have.
Well if you want an unconditionally generous mother figure who will gift upon you all the kinky sex because you so deserve it: Get an e*****. There's a reason why they get paid - they're fulfilling the client's fantasy, not their own.
So the real question is "How do I let kinky women find me?" There are two answers: Start a cargo cult that attempts to summon kinky girls by ritualistic mimicry, or change your perception of the world.
And here's the second part where I lose people.
"Most women are more kinky than most men"
Accept this as axiomatic or reject is as hogwash. Either one becomes a self-fulling prophecy. Your perception makes up your reality. Stop looking for kinky women and start looking for women with whom you can share an authentic connection. The kink will follow.
- Leo
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