My thoughts on the masculine art of cocksucking

For many guys, cocksucking is wrapped up in femininity, or degradation, or a daddy/son dynamic, or a sissy or cuck lifestyle, etc. For some it's even a religion in which cocks are worshiped and cum is swallowed as a sacrament.

I think I see it as a masculine craft to be learned and practiced, maybe something like barbering - a skill traditionally learned by men and for men, a necessary service that helps guys look great and feel handsome, happy and confident. For me there are no feelings of inferiority or femininity while sucking cock, no more than a barber would feel demeaned or feminized in cutting a man's hair or shaving him. It's a manly thing to do, it's a skill that can be learned and honed, and it's done for men to help them feel and look more manly.

My thoughts/feelings while I'm sucking are on the quality of the blowjob and my instinctive responses to the man's clues about my sucking. When he cums there's a feeling of having done a job well, and pleasure in giving him one of the greatest pleasures a man can have. Then in the "aftercare", if he chooses to stay a bit, there's a definite sense of active masculine romantic tenderness, even a loving sweetness sometimes, as I hold his softening cock in my mouth and let the pleasure of his orgasm lengthen and deepen into a sense of restful bliss.

There are times when a blowjob can blossom into a wider session of hugging, caressing, kissing, teasing, a million little things to bring excitement and horniness to the situation. At those times I've found that many men crave these things and haven't been getting them, and when they're suddenly felt again the man is transported instantly to a higher level of horniness and lust. It can hit a guy like a truck and leave him breathless and *needing* more.

Before and after, and through the whole thing, I have a lively sense of my masculinity and confidence in the skills I can bring to an oral session.