To pee or not to pee (the answer is yes)
So you read the title of this post and you were a bit intrigued, but you really don't think pissing on each other is for you...
Well if that is you, I urge you to read on because if you take it step by step and overcome the natural barriers, you will find that pissing on your sexual partner is a great way to get really intimate, do something that feels genuinely naughty and will help keep your sex life fresh. And if you would like to try it but think you won't be able to persuade your partner to have a go, read on, too.
A bit of background first, and the story of how we got into pissing for sexual pleasure. Years ago we decided we didn't want to involve anybody else in our sex life, but rather keep it between ourselves. Like most married couples, we have different appetites and different ideas about what makes sex fun, but we do agree that if you are going to have a very long-term relationship like ours, you constantly need to find new ways to keep it fresh, and be prepared to try new stuff, even if your instincts tell you otherwise, and you are out of your comfort zone.
Pissing on each other? Surely that's gross and perverted! But think again.
I watched my first pissing porn video by accident, probably 15 years ago. It was part of a random compilation and was about five seconds of half a dozen women sending short jets of piss over other women. Interesting, I thought, and - hold on - I'm finding this quite sexy. But it quickly moved on to another scene and I'm not into that sort of stuff anyway, I told myself.
Over the next two or three years I got a little more curious, but still couldn't convince myself that I was that much of a pervert to be turned on - just interested - by what a woman does in the toilet.
Then one Sunday afternoon, soon after the k**s had grown up and moved out, I was in the bath and J desperately needed to piss. We don't call it anything but 'piss' and 'pissing', by the way. There are 101 names you can use, but if you are adults doing it for sexual recreation, it just seems silly to call it something coy and twee like 'peeing'.
She had her knickers down and was just about to empty herself when I had an idea. Before I knew it, I found myself daring her to piss on my cock instead. I fully expected her to say no, and if we hadn't been in the bathroom and it needed us to be premeditated, I'm pretty sure her answer would have been no.
But she said yes. Now, J is the kind of person who will eventually try kinky stuff and often gets to like it, but never before she has thought of a reason not to do it. Her first reaction to all kinky ideas is to think what friends and family would think if they knew. We both know what they would probably think of us pissing on each other, but this time my idea was, amazingly, quickly approved.
Part of the reason for her permission was we weren't going to go hardcore straightaway. The dare was clear enough: piss on my cock and that's all.
I emptied the water from the bath, she stood over my (now very hard) cock and let go. It was even more of a turn-on than I thought - and not just for me. As soon as the first trickle appeared from her sweet pussy she began to shudder, and she experienced what she described as a mini orgasm, which continued until the last drops dripped down on to my cock.
I still don't know what happens to her, exactly, and neither does she, but it always does. As soon as it is over, however, she loses the sexual thrill and - in those days, anyway - it was instantly replaced by the need to clean up under the shower.
We liked it so much, though, that we did it a few times more. Because it needed to be in the bath and really requires pre-planning, however, it was kept as a treat, and more often than not it was reserved for when we were relaxing on holiday, and we headed to the hotel or chalet shower.
"Do you want me to piss on you?" I often asked, but the answer was always no, and I wasn't too disappointed. I loved being pissed on, and the thought of pissing on her didn't yet appeal, partly because in the back of my mind it felt disrespectful to piss on a woman, but also because it isn't necessarily easy to piss when you have an erection.
Of course the thing with all kinks is when you do them yourself it is nice to watch porn showing people doing the same thing - and it gives you ideas. While I was more than happy for J to keep pissing on my cock, the idea of her aiming at my chest became more attractive, and she was happy to comply. But we were heading towards the elephant in the room.
If you watch that type of porn you will see that while pissing on various parts of the body is the foreplay, ultimately there is no getting away from what it is really about - the climax to the act - which is having her (or his) piss in your mouth.
The first barrier to pissing sex is accepting that you even find it sexy, the second is actually pissing on a part of the body (a cock or pussy), and the third barrier is the one that makes you question whether you really want somebody else's piss in your mouth, even if that person is one you have intimate relations with.
For us there was the added barrier that J wasn't sure that she wanted to piss in my mouth. It helped a little to talk about her pissing on my face, but we both knew that that meant we were heading to the top step, which is hot piss in my mouth.
It was only earlier this year that we finally took that step. We were away for a few days, it was the afternoon and we were back at the hotel, in the mood for some kind of fun. And we decided to go for it. There we were, me lying on my back on the bathroom floor while she stood over my face, naked, and ready to piss.
And it was heaven. Don't expect me to put into words what was so erotic about it, but it was to do with doing something so utterly intimate, and probably the most intimate thing imaginable between two people. I don't swallow, by the way, partly because it doesn't appeal, but also because it is horny to collect it in your mouth and either dribble it down her legs or spit it back on her pussy.
Breaking the piss-in-mouth barrier also seemed to make it easier to break the next one - me pissing on J. We did it not knowing whether either of us would really like it, but there was only one way to find out for sure. We kept it as softcore as possible for starters, I was allowed to piss on her leg in the shower (with the shower running).
And she did like it - it was the hotness of the piss that turned her on - so the next time she was kneeling in the bath while I sprayed her upper body and pussy, but under instructions to keep it away from her face. The next time after that she sat down, I pissed and she took hold of my cock so that she could direct it over her nipples and between her legs.
And then another barrier was broken. Because she loses the thrill as soon as she stops pissing, it is short and sweet and over too quickly, but I found a way to extend it by kissing her wet pussy for a few seconds afterwards.
We did that a few times and then took yet another step. This time I got permission - half-reluctantly - to kiss her on the lips while my mouth was still wet from the piss on her pussy. Her reluctance reduces each time as she comes to terms with the fact that, actually, she is finding it intimate and erotic too.
We have also overcome the need to quickly shower when it's over, and now both like the feel of two bodies that are wet and slippery with piss, rubbing up against each other before we finally turn on the shower.
This all means that we are halfway to overcoming the final barrier - her getting some of my piss on her face and lips, and maybe in her mouth. For the moment she is still saying she doesn't want to, and I'm not going to force her, obviously, but I know - and she must be thinking it too - that that is where this is heading: the ultimate intimate piss experience.
Whereas pissing used to be an ad-hoc event, we are now planning it - to the extent that J drinks water all day so that she will taste nicer.
Pissing for mutual sexual pleasure may not be for every couple, but it is more popular than you think, really quite lovely in its intimacy, and there is a moral to our pissing games: if you are the one leading the adventure, and certainly if your partner is doubtful about following, the trick is to take it one blissful step at a time.
Well if that is you, I urge you to read on because if you take it step by step and overcome the natural barriers, you will find that pissing on your sexual partner is a great way to get really intimate, do something that feels genuinely naughty and will help keep your sex life fresh. And if you would like to try it but think you won't be able to persuade your partner to have a go, read on, too.
A bit of background first, and the story of how we got into pissing for sexual pleasure. Years ago we decided we didn't want to involve anybody else in our sex life, but rather keep it between ourselves. Like most married couples, we have different appetites and different ideas about what makes sex fun, but we do agree that if you are going to have a very long-term relationship like ours, you constantly need to find new ways to keep it fresh, and be prepared to try new stuff, even if your instincts tell you otherwise, and you are out of your comfort zone.
Pissing on each other? Surely that's gross and perverted! But think again.
I watched my first pissing porn video by accident, probably 15 years ago. It was part of a random compilation and was about five seconds of half a dozen women sending short jets of piss over other women. Interesting, I thought, and - hold on - I'm finding this quite sexy. But it quickly moved on to another scene and I'm not into that sort of stuff anyway, I told myself.
Over the next two or three years I got a little more curious, but still couldn't convince myself that I was that much of a pervert to be turned on - just interested - by what a woman does in the toilet.
Then one Sunday afternoon, soon after the k**s had grown up and moved out, I was in the bath and J desperately needed to piss. We don't call it anything but 'piss' and 'pissing', by the way. There are 101 names you can use, but if you are adults doing it for sexual recreation, it just seems silly to call it something coy and twee like 'peeing'.
She had her knickers down and was just about to empty herself when I had an idea. Before I knew it, I found myself daring her to piss on my cock instead. I fully expected her to say no, and if we hadn't been in the bathroom and it needed us to be premeditated, I'm pretty sure her answer would have been no.
But she said yes. Now, J is the kind of person who will eventually try kinky stuff and often gets to like it, but never before she has thought of a reason not to do it. Her first reaction to all kinky ideas is to think what friends and family would think if they knew. We both know what they would probably think of us pissing on each other, but this time my idea was, amazingly, quickly approved.
Part of the reason for her permission was we weren't going to go hardcore straightaway. The dare was clear enough: piss on my cock and that's all.
I emptied the water from the bath, she stood over my (now very hard) cock and let go. It was even more of a turn-on than I thought - and not just for me. As soon as the first trickle appeared from her sweet pussy she began to shudder, and she experienced what she described as a mini orgasm, which continued until the last drops dripped down on to my cock.
I still don't know what happens to her, exactly, and neither does she, but it always does. As soon as it is over, however, she loses the sexual thrill and - in those days, anyway - it was instantly replaced by the need to clean up under the shower.
We liked it so much, though, that we did it a few times more. Because it needed to be in the bath and really requires pre-planning, however, it was kept as a treat, and more often than not it was reserved for when we were relaxing on holiday, and we headed to the hotel or chalet shower.
"Do you want me to piss on you?" I often asked, but the answer was always no, and I wasn't too disappointed. I loved being pissed on, and the thought of pissing on her didn't yet appeal, partly because in the back of my mind it felt disrespectful to piss on a woman, but also because it isn't necessarily easy to piss when you have an erection.
Of course the thing with all kinks is when you do them yourself it is nice to watch porn showing people doing the same thing - and it gives you ideas. While I was more than happy for J to keep pissing on my cock, the idea of her aiming at my chest became more attractive, and she was happy to comply. But we were heading towards the elephant in the room.
If you watch that type of porn you will see that while pissing on various parts of the body is the foreplay, ultimately there is no getting away from what it is really about - the climax to the act - which is having her (or his) piss in your mouth.
The first barrier to pissing sex is accepting that you even find it sexy, the second is actually pissing on a part of the body (a cock or pussy), and the third barrier is the one that makes you question whether you really want somebody else's piss in your mouth, even if that person is one you have intimate relations with.
For us there was the added barrier that J wasn't sure that she wanted to piss in my mouth. It helped a little to talk about her pissing on my face, but we both knew that that meant we were heading to the top step, which is hot piss in my mouth.
It was only earlier this year that we finally took that step. We were away for a few days, it was the afternoon and we were back at the hotel, in the mood for some kind of fun. And we decided to go for it. There we were, me lying on my back on the bathroom floor while she stood over my face, naked, and ready to piss.
And it was heaven. Don't expect me to put into words what was so erotic about it, but it was to do with doing something so utterly intimate, and probably the most intimate thing imaginable between two people. I don't swallow, by the way, partly because it doesn't appeal, but also because it is horny to collect it in your mouth and either dribble it down her legs or spit it back on her pussy.
Breaking the piss-in-mouth barrier also seemed to make it easier to break the next one - me pissing on J. We did it not knowing whether either of us would really like it, but there was only one way to find out for sure. We kept it as softcore as possible for starters, I was allowed to piss on her leg in the shower (with the shower running).
And she did like it - it was the hotness of the piss that turned her on - so the next time she was kneeling in the bath while I sprayed her upper body and pussy, but under instructions to keep it away from her face. The next time after that she sat down, I pissed and she took hold of my cock so that she could direct it over her nipples and between her legs.
And then another barrier was broken. Because she loses the thrill as soon as she stops pissing, it is short and sweet and over too quickly, but I found a way to extend it by kissing her wet pussy for a few seconds afterwards.
We did that a few times and then took yet another step. This time I got permission - half-reluctantly - to kiss her on the lips while my mouth was still wet from the piss on her pussy. Her reluctance reduces each time as she comes to terms with the fact that, actually, she is finding it intimate and erotic too.
We have also overcome the need to quickly shower when it's over, and now both like the feel of two bodies that are wet and slippery with piss, rubbing up against each other before we finally turn on the shower.
This all means that we are halfway to overcoming the final barrier - her getting some of my piss on her face and lips, and maybe in her mouth. For the moment she is still saying she doesn't want to, and I'm not going to force her, obviously, but I know - and she must be thinking it too - that that is where this is heading: the ultimate intimate piss experience.
Whereas pissing used to be an ad-hoc event, we are now planning it - to the extent that J drinks water all day so that she will taste nicer.
Pissing for mutual sexual pleasure may not be for every couple, but it is more popular than you think, really quite lovely in its intimacy, and there is a moral to our pissing games: if you are the one leading the adventure, and certainly if your partner is doubtful about following, the trick is to take it one blissful step at a time.
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