Imagine

I'm someone who believes that almost everything we consider "normal" is constrained by societal expectations, most of which are based on religion. Imagine if those expectations were a bit different. What if married men were not only allowed to but expected to engage in mutually satisfying sex with other men - homosexuality. I have no doubt that almost all men would be happier.
Imagine if on the way home from work you, and many other men, would stop by the corner bathhouse to either get or give your buds there oral sex and release, then you went home to the wife and family.
Imagine if on weekends men got together with their buds to watch sports, but also to mutually masturbate and suck each other off during the game.
Imagine if all male friendships were expected to have "benefits" - of course buds would suck their buds cocks because we understand that all men want their cock sucked until it explodes in a mouth.
In this world there is room for those who mostly want to give, those who mostly want to receive, those who want to share, those who are 100% gay, and those (rare) individuals who are 100% hetero.
Imagine how much better our family and professional lives would be in this world!