On the Use of Slurs for Transgender People

I want to share my opinions as a trans girl about use of slurs. I think the offensiveness of words like tranny, shemale, trap, gurl, f*ggot etc, depends on the context you use them. If you use these words to deliberately insult and discriminate a trans person it isn't nice. You shouldn't call a trans woman these things if she doesn't like it. But in the fantasy dimension of porn and sex, I see no problem in the use of degrading words if the person accepts it as a fantasy and enjoys it. I personally enjoy being called a tranny, shemale or f..... as the part of degredation and humiliation fantasy and I find it sexually exciting. I don't like anyone to tell me I shouldn't accept these slurs as a part of my fantasy as I personally like it. If someone calls me these things simply because they hate me for being trans, they can just fuck off.

What do you think?