Men overwhelming Women (not in a good way)

I've seen a few instances of genuinely exciting content being posted, only for the content and associated profile to be taken down, presumably by the author (invariably a female). The authors present as authentic, and highly stimulating because they are real people and are thoughtful about their kinks. They thus garner a lot of attention, which I'm sure they expect (and look forward to) to in some capacity ... until they don't.
One conclusion is that there is a horde of dudes, likely more aggressive, insistent, and undersexed than I, who are overwhelming inboxes and harassing with comments, and possibly threatening duress if their attention isn't reciprocated. That shouldn't and likely doesn't turn anyone on, even in a fantasy setting. It reduces my pleasure greatly when delectable content is removed due to the actions of others, so to the gentlemen (and ladies if any) who are causing this, please desist.
This is not to toot my own horn (I prefer when the ladies do that, in a consensual fashion) or narcissistically admire my own preference to message "nicely" and non-obtrusively. I know some ladies tire of small talk, indirection, and casual conversation quickly, and that's their problem, ell oh ell.
Sometimes you just don't "hit it off" with some people, or they simply deem you not worth their effort, and you have to let it be. Sometimes the lady is tired, and does deserve to log off quickly. Other times some people are spending their days just enjoying content and don't want to be bothered. If you're interesting... they will make their interest in you, and how you might satiate their needs, known. That's been my experience at least.