Sunbed

Early in my sexual training I visited a sauna in Manchester several times which at the tome was a busy place. It had large saunas, Steam rooms and cabins to chill. It also had a sunbed. On one of my earlier visits I decided to use the sunbed, it was a double in that it had tubes underneath and above. One of the staff offered to help me with the equipment and apply sun cream to me. I was a bit surprised but thought he was just being helpful. He explained the workings of the equipment then offered to oil me. Which he did very very well both my front and my back. when he started to oil my bum more and more I got a bit concerned. I realised after a short time his intension was to fuck me. Unfortunately I wasn't ready for that at the time. It is sad that I regret not accepting the inevitable. The reality is it was a shock I guess I didn't realise at the time his intentions if I had I may have been better prepared.
Sitting in the sauna or steam room was different it seemed I was happy being naked with other generally older guys. I enjoyed them looking at me but the sunbed was different it seemed.
I remember visiting toilets in Wigan walking home at night and two guys approached me.
They were very friendly and after a bit of mutual wanking suggested I go back to their place, it would be safer.
I agreed after a quick beer together, getting better acquainted we went to their bedroom. I have to say it was good to be naked in bed with 2 guys. They were very different though I now realise one was the dom and the other the sub. The dom had an enorous cock whilst the sub was similar to me. We cuddled kissed and fondled each other, the dom really wanted to fuck me, unfortunately I couldn't take his huge cock. So he fucked his partner instead.
I think the problem is in both these experiences is it was before poppers were readily available and I wasn't prepared for what was happening.
If either experience was now I am sure I would have accepted the situation far better.
I regret the lost opportunity.