How to Give the Best BJ (Like, Actually Amazing)
Alright, let’s get straight to it—oral sex is an art, and if you’re gonna do it, you might as well do it well. A good blowjob isn’t just about putting something in your mouth and hoping for the best. There’s technique, creativity, and, let’s be real, a little enthusiasm involved. If you want to leave your partner absolutely speechless (in the best way possible), here’s how to up your game.
First things first: enthusiasm is everything. Even if you’re not a pro at technique (yet), just being into it makes a huge difference. Nobody wants a half-hearted, “ugh, fine, I guess” blowjob. Confidence and eagerness? Those are what turn a good experience into a mind-blowing one.
Now, let’s talk about pace and rhythm. Too fast, and you might finish things quicker than you intended. Too slow, and you might lose momentum. The sweet spot? A nice mix of teasing, slow build-up, and eventually finding that rhythm that makes them lose their mind.
Hands are your best friend. Unless you have the throat capacity of a very ambitious sword swallower, you’re probably not gonna get everything in your mouth. That’s where your hands come in—stroke in sync with your mouth, switch up the pressure, and don’t be afraid to add a little twist motion for extra sensation. Bonus points if you switch between mouth, hands, and just teasing with your tongue.
Speaking of tongues—use it. The tip, the underside, the head—these areas are full of nerve endings, so don’t just focus on going up and down. Swirl your tongue, flick it, press it against sensitive spots. Licking and sucking on just the head for a while? Instant shivers.
Suction matters. Too little and it’s meh. Too much and, well, nobody wants to feel like they’re caught in a vacuum cleaner. Find that balance where you’re applying just the right amount of pressure without it feeling uncomfortable.
And let’s not forget about eye contact. Oh yes. Looking up at them at the right moment? That’s the kind of thing that lives in people’s memories rent-free. A little eye contact, maybe a smirk—suddenly, it’s not just a blowjob, it’s an experience.
Change things up. Don’t do the same motion on repeat—alternate speeds, angles, and focus. Maybe pull back and tease a little, maybe go deeper for a moment, maybe focus just on the head for a while. The key is variety. If you’re having fun, they definitely will be too.
And finally—communication is hot. You wanna know what’s working? Listen. Feel. And if you’re unsure, ask. A simple "Like that?" or "Tell me what you want"? That’s not just sexy—it’s an instant upgrade to whatever you’re doing.
At the end of the day, the best blowjobs aren’t just about technique. They’re about engagement, enthusiasm, and making the other person feel like the luckiest person alive in that moment. So take your time, enjoy yourself, and most importantly—have fun with it.
First things first: enthusiasm is everything. Even if you’re not a pro at technique (yet), just being into it makes a huge difference. Nobody wants a half-hearted, “ugh, fine, I guess” blowjob. Confidence and eagerness? Those are what turn a good experience into a mind-blowing one.
Now, let’s talk about pace and rhythm. Too fast, and you might finish things quicker than you intended. Too slow, and you might lose momentum. The sweet spot? A nice mix of teasing, slow build-up, and eventually finding that rhythm that makes them lose their mind.
Hands are your best friend. Unless you have the throat capacity of a very ambitious sword swallower, you’re probably not gonna get everything in your mouth. That’s where your hands come in—stroke in sync with your mouth, switch up the pressure, and don’t be afraid to add a little twist motion for extra sensation. Bonus points if you switch between mouth, hands, and just teasing with your tongue.
Speaking of tongues—use it. The tip, the underside, the head—these areas are full of nerve endings, so don’t just focus on going up and down. Swirl your tongue, flick it, press it against sensitive spots. Licking and sucking on just the head for a while? Instant shivers.
Suction matters. Too little and it’s meh. Too much and, well, nobody wants to feel like they’re caught in a vacuum cleaner. Find that balance where you’re applying just the right amount of pressure without it feeling uncomfortable.
And let’s not forget about eye contact. Oh yes. Looking up at them at the right moment? That’s the kind of thing that lives in people’s memories rent-free. A little eye contact, maybe a smirk—suddenly, it’s not just a blowjob, it’s an experience.
Change things up. Don’t do the same motion on repeat—alternate speeds, angles, and focus. Maybe pull back and tease a little, maybe go deeper for a moment, maybe focus just on the head for a while. The key is variety. If you’re having fun, they definitely will be too.
And finally—communication is hot. You wanna know what’s working? Listen. Feel. And if you’re unsure, ask. A simple "Like that?" or "Tell me what you want"? That’s not just sexy—it’s an instant upgrade to whatever you’re doing.
At the end of the day, the best blowjobs aren’t just about technique. They’re about engagement, enthusiasm, and making the other person feel like the luckiest person alive in that moment. So take your time, enjoy yourself, and most importantly—have fun with it.
11ヶ月前
