The confusion between a Threesome and Cukholding
I recently saw a post titled "...the wife is being cucked...". The wife is not cucked, a wife is never cucked.
I see a lot of confusion everywhere between threesome and cuckholding.
Let's start with a married couple. There are two path when it comes to a MMF triangular relationship (that involved effective penetrative sex, I am not covering other type emotional encounters here, nor FFM scenarios). First path is a threesome, second path is cuckholding, and they are very different.
In the first Threesome scenario, basically the wife is shared by the husband to an additional guy. Usually, there are two forms: 1) the husband is the dominant one\ and he grants the other guy the privilege to fuck his wife with him; 2) the wife is the dominant one, and she adds one more guy so she can enjoy two guys are her sex buddies for the session. I often comment that there are several levels of threesome, let me clarify the hierarchy. They are ordered in terms of sophistication and perversion:
- level 0: the guys take turns to fuck the woman, there might be oral sex 1:1 during preliminaries (including M to M oral), but the actual session is one 1:1 with the third one aside, with no real direct physical sexual interaction with the fucking couple. Level 0+ is when the three are confident enough to not use protected sex and the woman ends up receiving both semen on her / inside her.
- level 1: both male enter into physical sex with the woman, at this level it is the classical spit roast but also the woman blowing both guys (one in each end). Both anal or vaginal spit roasts are considered level 1. Level 1+ is same as level 0+. Level 1++ would be if the woman swallows either or both guys semen
- level 2: this is where the intimacy becomes ultimate, the woman is double penetrated (vaginal & anal). Same idea for Level 2+ (no protection).
- level 3: this level adds M to M penetrative sex, and all combinations of 'double plugging' are perfoemed.
Now, for cukholding, we have a very different scenario. The fundamental idea is that the women is 'stolen' from the husband, hidden or openly. We will only discuss the open scenario, ie the three are present as this discussion is to contrast against a threesome. Cuckholding on the back of the husband is different, I might share my thoughts (and experiences in another article some day). We will call the second man "the bull", which works in both cases where either the bull dominated, or he is used by the woman to satisfy her desires that the husband fails to completely fulfill. The husband is called the husband or the cuck. In cukholding, the husband is the 'looser', so his sexual participation must be controlled very carefully: he is not to have pleasure, he is here to witness his wife having pleasure that he cannot give her. There are different ways to handle the cuck sexuality: one is total restraint, by use caging his cock and restraining his hands in some way. This can lead to make him very uncomfortable, this is way I personally recommend that the cuck is "drained" before the session (in a separate adjacent room, not in the same room, this is very important to set the scenario right, the cuck does not have sexual pleasure during the session): either by having him masturbate or performing hand job(s) - I do not recommend BJ or penetrative sex, that would defeat the purpose, using a men sex toy is acceptable. Depending on the age and the libido, it might requires several ejaculations (personal experience with a Japanese couple in the late 90s: the husband had a very small cock, 6cm fully erected - yes, the small cock cliché was true this time-, big balls, we had to jerk him 6 times for 45 minutes to get him empty, that was amazing). Now that the cuck is empty and restrained, there are several cuckholding level:
- Level 0: the bull just fucks the wife with the cuck watching from a (short) distance. What the bull does to the wife is not relevant, can be simple missionary or violent doggy anal sex, the point is that the cuck witness his wife explicit sexual activities. Level 0+ is if no protection is used (same).
- Level 1: the cuck is now used during the session, but his activities is limited to during the preliminaries. It can include cunnilingus, blowing, etc. But - very important - the cuck does not perform till an orgasm happen, the cuck never actively (see level 3) provide the ultimate pleasure. Level 1+... you got the idea.
- Level 2: the cuck is used, but this time he participates post preliminary. At this level the practice is the bull fuck the wife doggy, the cuck is under in 69 position and has a prime view of the bull fucking the wife, vaginally and/or anally. The cuck might be instructed to lick the wife or the bull.
- Level 3: this is the ultimate level where the cuck served the bull directly. Two main examples: a) same as level 2+ (means the bull ejaculates freely - inside the wife), when the bull pulls out, the cuck lick the wife pussy and receive the bull's dripping semen (swallows for Level 3+); b) the bull fuck the cuck anally (ejaculates freely inside at level 3+). Note that if at any point, the cuck shows signs of erection, the session must be paused, the cuck taken in a separate adjacent, room and drained again.
It is highly advisable that the cuck has a collar and is kept on a leash.
Final thought: now, to bring back the confusion, cuckolding does not need to be a lifestyle and everyday fact, it is very possible for a couple to want to experience such scenario. Then, first find a threesome guy to do that. But still, even if the cuckholding is a temporary, per session, experience, the principles I highlighted must be implemented to call the experience true cuckholding as opposed to just a threesome fun.
Have you experienced cuckholding? As a wife? As a husband? As a bull? Share your adventure with me!
I see a lot of confusion everywhere between threesome and cuckholding.
Let's start with a married couple. There are two path when it comes to a MMF triangular relationship (that involved effective penetrative sex, I am not covering other type emotional encounters here, nor FFM scenarios). First path is a threesome, second path is cuckholding, and they are very different.
In the first Threesome scenario, basically the wife is shared by the husband to an additional guy. Usually, there are two forms: 1) the husband is the dominant one\ and he grants the other guy the privilege to fuck his wife with him; 2) the wife is the dominant one, and she adds one more guy so she can enjoy two guys are her sex buddies for the session. I often comment that there are several levels of threesome, let me clarify the hierarchy. They are ordered in terms of sophistication and perversion:
- level 0: the guys take turns to fuck the woman, there might be oral sex 1:1 during preliminaries (including M to M oral), but the actual session is one 1:1 with the third one aside, with no real direct physical sexual interaction with the fucking couple. Level 0+ is when the three are confident enough to not use protected sex and the woman ends up receiving both semen on her / inside her.
- level 1: both male enter into physical sex with the woman, at this level it is the classical spit roast but also the woman blowing both guys (one in each end). Both anal or vaginal spit roasts are considered level 1. Level 1+ is same as level 0+. Level 1++ would be if the woman swallows either or both guys semen
- level 2: this is where the intimacy becomes ultimate, the woman is double penetrated (vaginal & anal). Same idea for Level 2+ (no protection).
- level 3: this level adds M to M penetrative sex, and all combinations of 'double plugging' are perfoemed.
Now, for cukholding, we have a very different scenario. The fundamental idea is that the women is 'stolen' from the husband, hidden or openly. We will only discuss the open scenario, ie the three are present as this discussion is to contrast against a threesome. Cuckholding on the back of the husband is different, I might share my thoughts (and experiences in another article some day). We will call the second man "the bull", which works in both cases where either the bull dominated, or he is used by the woman to satisfy her desires that the husband fails to completely fulfill. The husband is called the husband or the cuck. In cukholding, the husband is the 'looser', so his sexual participation must be controlled very carefully: he is not to have pleasure, he is here to witness his wife having pleasure that he cannot give her. There are different ways to handle the cuck sexuality: one is total restraint, by use caging his cock and restraining his hands in some way. This can lead to make him very uncomfortable, this is way I personally recommend that the cuck is "drained" before the session (in a separate adjacent room, not in the same room, this is very important to set the scenario right, the cuck does not have sexual pleasure during the session): either by having him masturbate or performing hand job(s) - I do not recommend BJ or penetrative sex, that would defeat the purpose, using a men sex toy is acceptable. Depending on the age and the libido, it might requires several ejaculations (personal experience with a Japanese couple in the late 90s: the husband had a very small cock, 6cm fully erected - yes, the small cock cliché was true this time-, big balls, we had to jerk him 6 times for 45 minutes to get him empty, that was amazing). Now that the cuck is empty and restrained, there are several cuckholding level:
- Level 0: the bull just fucks the wife with the cuck watching from a (short) distance. What the bull does to the wife is not relevant, can be simple missionary or violent doggy anal sex, the point is that the cuck witness his wife explicit sexual activities. Level 0+ is if no protection is used (same).
- Level 1: the cuck is now used during the session, but his activities is limited to during the preliminaries. It can include cunnilingus, blowing, etc. But - very important - the cuck does not perform till an orgasm happen, the cuck never actively (see level 3) provide the ultimate pleasure. Level 1+... you got the idea.
- Level 2: the cuck is used, but this time he participates post preliminary. At this level the practice is the bull fuck the wife doggy, the cuck is under in 69 position and has a prime view of the bull fucking the wife, vaginally and/or anally. The cuck might be instructed to lick the wife or the bull.
- Level 3: this is the ultimate level where the cuck served the bull directly. Two main examples: a) same as level 2+ (means the bull ejaculates freely - inside the wife), when the bull pulls out, the cuck lick the wife pussy and receive the bull's dripping semen (swallows for Level 3+); b) the bull fuck the cuck anally (ejaculates freely inside at level 3+). Note that if at any point, the cuck shows signs of erection, the session must be paused, the cuck taken in a separate adjacent, room and drained again.
It is highly advisable that the cuck has a collar and is kept on a leash.
Final thought: now, to bring back the confusion, cuckolding does not need to be a lifestyle and everyday fact, it is very possible for a couple to want to experience such scenario. Then, first find a threesome guy to do that. But still, even if the cuckholding is a temporary, per session, experience, the principles I highlighted must be implemented to call the experience true cuckholding as opposed to just a threesome fun.
Have you experienced cuckholding? As a wife? As a husband? As a bull? Share your adventure with me!
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