You Kill My Vibe

There may not be many things that would make a heterosexual man not interested in having sex with a cisgendered, hot, female. However, when it comes to women and men, we tend to be generally a lot more picky. I certainly am- let me tell you what I have observed.

While males seem to be attracted to female body parts, absent from the rest of them, objectified and dissected into bits and pieces for sexual gratification – the same thing can not be said for the female gaze when it comes to the male vessel. I speak for myself only, but I do know a number of other women who have made the same observation – we are not obsessed with the visual of the penis in the same way that men like to look at images of pussy devoid from the remainder of it’s owner. That being said- if we wanted to see it, we would ask for it. Second, if we wanted YOU to see it, then we would show you. NOTHING, kills the anticipation building for me when I am using my remote toys than entering into a conversation with a male who compliments me on my interests- AND then proceeds to ask me to do everything under the sun for them. Why? Why would I just get naked and do whatever it is that they have thought up in their delusional and entitled mind- when you haven’t so much shown me that you can send a little seduction my way. Honestly, the entitlement is abhorrent and it literally kills the mood faster than anything else I have experienced when I say no to something and the other party continues to push and push and push. Such a buzz kill.