An APOLOGY!

Recently I was sent this accusation:
"You fetishize black men. That is ra cism"

I had a conversation with the person involved, wondering where this had come from being I thought NOT an actual RACIST.
It appears that comments I have made against videos that contain black men and probably other ethnic groups is fetishizing them!

I WOULD THEREFORE LIKE TO APOLOGIZE TO ANY PERSON WHO THINKS I FULFIL THEIR CRITERIA THAT PUTS ME INTO THAT GROUP.

In mitigation however just let me say this:
I like people.
I like guys..be they black or white or other!
I make comments on videos or photos because they are something I like, not because I am attempting to ridicule or run them down in any shape or form?
Are a person's 'likes' whatever they may be now being called a fetish? I like the colour red, is THAT a fetish??
So are some black guys now saying they would rather be left alone by white girls? because obviously this may well be a white versus black issue!I

BY STATING THE ABOVE I THOUGHT I WAS ATTEMPTING TO JUSTIFY WHY I AM NOT RAC IST. IT SEEMS THAT BY DOING SO I AM CONFIRMING THAT I AM I FACT A RAC IST. Not sure how that works?

I would appreciate other comments on this subject.
Thanks