What’s gayer

I can’t even put these in any kind of order.
Sucking cock or getting sucked.
fucking or getting fucked.
getting fucked or sucking cock.
Quick kisses on the lips or passionately kissing ones neck and ear areas.
giving a hand job or someone jerking off on you.
giving multiple blow jobs through a glory hole or sucking one cock being seen.

Certain I’ll come up with more questions but for now fire away