Curious questions for anyone reading

So its been bought to my attention by friends that they have it once a month, quite a few friends. I just do it whenever asked as long as i'm not tired beyond belief or sick, this mean 3 - 4 times a week on average. I'm a wife and with that my hubby doesn't need to do anything to himself and hasn't done in years, I view myself as not only his life partner but his hole to use when he needs it.

So, how often would anyone say they get it or need it on average? I think once a month is terrible and these friends speak of arguments all the time. My hubby and I argue once every few years maybe. I thought this would be the best and most honest place to ask. Honest answers only, if you got it anytime you need it you would not be having it 3 times a day 7 days a week after 15 odd years of it... or maybe you would.