Difficult for single guys!

I have been on this site for a long time now and it seems to have become increasingly difficult to chat with women.

Now I know it's not a given right to have your message/comment replied to but it would be nice, even if it's a polite "no thank you".

I would love to have some fun with a lady, either chatting or in person, eventually if chemistry was right.
Do any guys, or even our lovely female members have any tips or suggestions?