Wife feels and is different after affair
One of the most interesting phenomena I observed with my wife when she ended her long-term relationship with a lover and wanted to start having sex with me again was that she seemed like a different woman. Many things were different, as I guess they would be when resuming sex with her husband after a long time. It’s both emotional and sexual.
When my wife and her boss agreed it was time to stop having sex with one another, he was preparing to move to another state as he’d been promoted at work. She was, in fact, still in love with me, and wasn’t having sex with any other men. We were in our late 30s and both of us were looking forward to resuming a more traditional marriage lifestyle, with the understanding that if the right man came along my wife should have sex with him, and we’d see how things went. But at this point, I was waiting for her to invite me to bed with her, in our marital bedroom where he’d been the only one she’d been having sex with.
When my wife shared with me what was happening, it was no surprise as we kind of knew it was coming and it was tearful for her. She’d made love to him more than me, and was exclusive to him. I wasn't in her, although she would ask me to go down on her when she came home after sex with him, followed by her giving me a sexy hand job as she told me about her path to orgasm before coming home. She’d been pregnant with him (for a while) and we weathered all that came with that, and finally, when he left she’d have to get used to a new boss and wouldn’t be having sex with him after work on the couch in his office any more. She would miss the sex and the chance to conceive with him. That was what she said anyway. I said: "you ought to give the new boss a chance!" As we talked about it
my wife took my hand and asked me if I was ready to fuck her – any way I wanted (implying that she’d enjoy anal as well as vaginal – the decision was mine). We'd been talking about pretty hot stuff, and it had aroused her - she was wet and wanted penetration right then. I had missed having anal sex with her over the years she was exclusive to her boss and I couldn’t wait to enjoy her that way again – she’s one of the few women I’ve known who really enjoys anal and isn’t just doing it for her husband. My wife has an orgasm every time when a man takes her anally and she’s prone on the bed or floor. She also likes anal in missionary position. I like it any way I can get it because it feels so damn good!
As we undressed one another and were climbing into our bed I was amazed at how different she seemed. She was a different woman than she was the last time I had sex with her. Her fragrance was arousing, and she felt softer and warmer as I moved on top of her and caressed her. She was kissing me differently and as I looked down I noticed the remnants of a hickey by her nipple. Her boss had left me a greeting! We made out that way for a short while as I was growing more erect – the tip of my penis was touching her labia and it felt very, very good. I found myself wishing her boss had just fucked her – that would have made it hotter, but I was hard enough to penetrate her all the way. Her vagina felt different as well, but strangely erotic and warm, making me starting thinking about cumming – way too soon!
“Cum in me whenever you are ready,” she said, “and I want you to eat my pussy after you cum.” So I ejaculated deep as I could inside her and stayed on top of her, in her, until my cock softened and plopped out. Going down on my wife was a treat I hadn’t enjoyed in so long and I was sorry I didn’t have a bigger load for her but she enjoyed it and soon enough asked me to get her Hitachi out of the nightstand drawer and suck her breast as she got herself off. Afterwards I noticed that she tasted a bit differently than I remembered.
It was like a different woman each time we had sex from that point on, and I was the benefactor of all that had happened after all. Her next BF (a year or so later) was also a worker at her company, but not a top level management guy. He was a mechanic supervisor and had the rough outdoorsy hands she loves to feel roaming her body. My wife invited him to her hotel room one night after work (she was working with management in his district), and it was ON for about 4 years. He was a better lover than her old boss, she said, and is “a good deal bigger than you” and “I have feelings for him.” There was no distant travel for her with this lover, and I sometimes came home from work and found them in our bed together. Amazing how I could always tell she’d just been fucked or just had an orgasm, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s all about orgasms, after all. And with this lover, we didn’t bother with birth control either as they weren’t able to get together all that often. When I went down on her after they had sex, there wasn’t much, - his ejaculations were going deep and staying deep, which we all just loved. And it tended to leak out later, and at the most inopportune times, but that’s the way it goes and it reminded me that she'd just had sex. Once again, we were talking about pregnancy with her BF, but the emotional connection just wasn't there for her and while she wasn't using any contraception, she was careful about her timing with him.
If you and your wife elect to invite other men into your lives (and into her!) be prepared for all kinds of surprises - you need to be flexible!
When my wife and her boss agreed it was time to stop having sex with one another, he was preparing to move to another state as he’d been promoted at work. She was, in fact, still in love with me, and wasn’t having sex with any other men. We were in our late 30s and both of us were looking forward to resuming a more traditional marriage lifestyle, with the understanding that if the right man came along my wife should have sex with him, and we’d see how things went. But at this point, I was waiting for her to invite me to bed with her, in our marital bedroom where he’d been the only one she’d been having sex with.
When my wife shared with me what was happening, it was no surprise as we kind of knew it was coming and it was tearful for her. She’d made love to him more than me, and was exclusive to him. I wasn't in her, although she would ask me to go down on her when she came home after sex with him, followed by her giving me a sexy hand job as she told me about her path to orgasm before coming home. She’d been pregnant with him (for a while) and we weathered all that came with that, and finally, when he left she’d have to get used to a new boss and wouldn’t be having sex with him after work on the couch in his office any more. She would miss the sex and the chance to conceive with him. That was what she said anyway. I said: "you ought to give the new boss a chance!" As we talked about it
my wife took my hand and asked me if I was ready to fuck her – any way I wanted (implying that she’d enjoy anal as well as vaginal – the decision was mine). We'd been talking about pretty hot stuff, and it had aroused her - she was wet and wanted penetration right then. I had missed having anal sex with her over the years she was exclusive to her boss and I couldn’t wait to enjoy her that way again – she’s one of the few women I’ve known who really enjoys anal and isn’t just doing it for her husband. My wife has an orgasm every time when a man takes her anally and she’s prone on the bed or floor. She also likes anal in missionary position. I like it any way I can get it because it feels so damn good!
As we undressed one another and were climbing into our bed I was amazed at how different she seemed. She was a different woman than she was the last time I had sex with her. Her fragrance was arousing, and she felt softer and warmer as I moved on top of her and caressed her. She was kissing me differently and as I looked down I noticed the remnants of a hickey by her nipple. Her boss had left me a greeting! We made out that way for a short while as I was growing more erect – the tip of my penis was touching her labia and it felt very, very good. I found myself wishing her boss had just fucked her – that would have made it hotter, but I was hard enough to penetrate her all the way. Her vagina felt different as well, but strangely erotic and warm, making me starting thinking about cumming – way too soon!
“Cum in me whenever you are ready,” she said, “and I want you to eat my pussy after you cum.” So I ejaculated deep as I could inside her and stayed on top of her, in her, until my cock softened and plopped out. Going down on my wife was a treat I hadn’t enjoyed in so long and I was sorry I didn’t have a bigger load for her but she enjoyed it and soon enough asked me to get her Hitachi out of the nightstand drawer and suck her breast as she got herself off. Afterwards I noticed that she tasted a bit differently than I remembered.
It was like a different woman each time we had sex from that point on, and I was the benefactor of all that had happened after all. Her next BF (a year or so later) was also a worker at her company, but not a top level management guy. He was a mechanic supervisor and had the rough outdoorsy hands she loves to feel roaming her body. My wife invited him to her hotel room one night after work (she was working with management in his district), and it was ON for about 4 years. He was a better lover than her old boss, she said, and is “a good deal bigger than you” and “I have feelings for him.” There was no distant travel for her with this lover, and I sometimes came home from work and found them in our bed together. Amazing how I could always tell she’d just been fucked or just had an orgasm, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s all about orgasms, after all. And with this lover, we didn’t bother with birth control either as they weren’t able to get together all that often. When I went down on her after they had sex, there wasn’t much, - his ejaculations were going deep and staying deep, which we all just loved. And it tended to leak out later, and at the most inopportune times, but that’s the way it goes and it reminded me that she'd just had sex. Once again, we were talking about pregnancy with her BF, but the emotional connection just wasn't there for her and while she wasn't using any contraception, she was careful about her timing with him.
If you and your wife elect to invite other men into your lives (and into her!) be prepared for all kinds of surprises - you need to be flexible!
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