When to Add the Erotic Art of Swallowing pt.1

It goes to say I've had decades of experience in my encounters with men. One that always remails a bit fuzzy is well, when to and when not to swallow. If you're in that situation! As many may attest, when enjoying a sexual encounter, while performing oral sex you do it as part of fore play and then move on to intercourse, or make that the primary play for that moment. In other words, are we fucking are just getting head? Either are fine and may vary based on the relationship, or arrangement, or whatever. For example, meeting for a quickie may involve a bit of everything but will mostly end with intercourse. Now if you and your partner have already discussed a limited - lets meet quickly, as I only want a "bj", then it's settled... Unless of course, if you two are regulars and enjoy taking time to play and part of that is the motion of starting with some oral sex, then reengage and go into a second round, leading to intercourse, etc.'... But now and then, you may have a situation where the limit is just that - just to doing oral, then the next question will be, so you swallow? or to begin with, do you let the experience of having him cum in your mouth or just when ready, move aside and jerk the dick to cum away from your mouth? Does preferring one or doing one make you more or less of a slut? of in what you may all, being a pig? Funny how this may be viewed. Met a Straight Man, Latino about 23, decided to come over and let me blow him. We met, had a nice time and when the time came, had him stand before me. Pillow down in front, I kneeled and as my head met his torso, I slowly unzipped his jeans, as he watched the movie playing on my computer behind me. It was his first time with a guy. I unzipped, took my time to pull down his pants and began with is underwear. I knew not to rush and told him to relax and just enjoy the motion. Also to let me know if he became uncomfortable... He was nervous, and it took a little time to massage his penis, being gentle and kissing it. Rubbing it and not making too many sounds. (As I knew, at this point if he felt too "dirty" he would pull away.) You see, he's a straight young man, who is not looking to gayness, but to satisfy his urge to cum. When I began to feel him being erect, I slowly encouraged it more... then licking the head, than shaft, then servicing the whole penis. From here you're never sure where you'll end, but ideally you want him to shoot his nut. My experience led me to fee this young man wanted to be blown and have his nut taken. So, I continued... And as this was our first time, I was unsure how soon, or long it would take... but that too would be a factor. Luck would have it; this particular young man began to express movement and show signs that he would shoot soon. I continued to service him as a fem (woman) would... and indicate my enjoyment and that he was better than I expected (bit of an ego boost.) Suddenly he indicated that he was ready to cum... Now here is the sort of gamble. Do I ask where he wants to cum, see if he'll say something or just go with what happens... Honestly, it all just depends on the vibe. Sure, enough in this case, he began to indicate that he was cumming and I positioned myself to keep sucking him off... he began to trust a bit and I held his hips and let him shoot into my mouth. two, three, four shots of his semen in my mouth and throat... I just swallowed... by the fifth shot, he slowed and stopped. I remained positions, gentle and with my mouth over his dick. I pulled it out, licked it again and cleaned the tip - swallowing the rest. He stood here, a bit out of breath. I simply said, stay here let me get a towel. I arose, walked to the kitchen, grabbed a paper towel, wet it and came back to him - kneeled down and cleaned his dick well. As he pulled up his pants and got dressed. I made a small comment how enjoyable that was and it was nice to see him again... we said our good buys and I walked him to that door. Again, being polite, I mentioned it was cool to chill and hope we get a change to chill again soon. He left and that was the encounter. Now with this guy, we would meet up regularly, now and then for our encounter... for him, I enjoyed our thing... never sex, but always a bj... and he never admitted it but I know he loved that I swallowed him. and he was ok with that - but there are some who are not. each experience/partner is difference in what they want. especially when their Straight. Part 2 Next: Our Regular Meets...