Natan

I am a transvestite. I love dressing up as a woman, wearing women's underwear and dresses. That's when I feel like myself. I have always been attracted to men. I thought that when I got married, it would go away, but unfortunately, nothing has changed. I recently met Robert on a website for transsexuals and gay men. We meet at his place for sex, and I keep all my women's clothes there. My wife doesn't know anything about it. Robert recently met my wife, and we talked a lot about her. I shouldn't have told him that I can't satisfy her well; in general, I'm not good at sex with women. He said he could replace me and have sex with her. I thought it was a joke, but he visits us more and more often, brings gifts for my wife, and I've noticed that she lets him touch her. Sometimes he grabs her buttocks, and recently, when we were sitting over coffee, he put his hand on her thigh and stroked her crotch. I feel very uncomfortable in such situations and I feel like I'm getting in their way. I asked Robert not to do that and not to involve my wife, but he just smiled and told me not to worry, that everything would be fine. I don't know how to get out of this situation.