Bi or Gay?

I have always considered myself to be Bi as my first sexual experiences began when I was seduced by an older boy when I was 14 I later discovered girls and women, so the Bi side took a back seat. Down the years I was happy as heterosexual sex fulfilled my needs. Only occasionally having a Bisexual experience.

I’ve been married for 40 plus years and gradually my sexual relationship with my wife slowly slipped away fortunately unlike in my youth there was the internet which offered an endless stream of M & F porn which meant I was able to substitute my need for sex with lonesome wanking sessions. It took a while for me to realise that I was now getting more enjoyment from watching the men's cocks than the tits and pussies. I now found that I was seeking out gay porn in preference to men & women although I still enjoy MMF and have been fortunate to enjoy a few experiences with some great couples.

I did join a well know sex dating site and met quite a few women although only one ended in having sex. I found that women despite what they may say are not as discrete as I wanted, so I turned to meeting men many of whom were in a similar position to myself being in a sexless or much reduced marriage.

My own definition of Bi has been someone who has more women partners than men but now I must decide as the count has flipped over in favour of men am I now Gay?

I have met some great blokes and must say the orgasms achieved with men have been considerably better than with women. You can instantly see if a man is excited and ‘Up for it’ and I’ve not come across any man who fakes an orgasm.