Taking a guys virginity

So I was reading some of the stories here on X Hamster, I enjoy reading first time stories the most as I can't really relate to any of the others. When I read one blog post asking how women feel about taking a man's virginity.

It got me thinking, I've a lot of stories about girls losing their virginity, how they felt, how the man felt whilst taking it. But not so much the other way round .

I'd like to know how the gals out there handle their virgins! Is that a turn on for you, or can you not really be bothered? I'd imagine its to boring really, especially if you've got someone like me who is so inexperienced! I'd be far too self-concious and probably not enjoy it at all. Personally I can never see myself taking charge until I get, well, some actual practice in. So do you take the nice, gentle and lots of guidance approach, or do you shove em on their backs get them hard and just ride them until you're done? Or do you sorta just stand there while he fumbles about clumsily?

you can answer here, on the profile or in a private message. This question has a) really got me thinking and b) turned me on quite a bit :/

personally I'd like lots of guidance and talk about what she would like and what to expect :)