Another one of xHamster's great mysteries
When I joined this site close to two years ago, I signed on with the sole purpose of meeting some women. Not for cam, cybering, phone sex, D/s, or any other sexual purpose - I just wanted a simple conversation that would hold my interest. Anything beyond that is bonus.
I've added over 800 women to my list. Different regions, nationalities, sexual tastes, and ages. No matter what time of day it is, there's usually 50 or 60 of my friends online so there's never a chance of missing a chance to talk to new people. Mission accomplished, right?
Hardly.
There have been great times when I have many different conversations going on with different women - the stream of messages is unending. Many times it's simple stuff like what kind of videos they like to masturbate to, real life stuff like bad experiences with others here at xHamster, and occasionally it's stimulating stuff - both mentally and sexually; the kind of conversation that will make you stay awake past your bedtime and then some.
Then there are times when those same people you've been in contact with - the ones you think are your "friends", the ones you've had casual adult conversations with, the ones whose words you've looked forward to reading simply don't return messages. They ignore you, blow you off, turn the other cheek, because they'd rather speak to someone else, are busy pleasuring themselves to a video because it's faster, or just don't want to be bothered by someone.
This is one of those times for me.
Not sure how to take this. I have made friends that I've made connections with, spoken to at length, gotten good vibes from. And now, ice cold. Am I that monumentally dull? Can plain ordinary non-sexual chat survive on a porn site? What can I do to spice things up? Should I spice things up and be someone I'm not?
Breaking point: I met a woman here online almost when I signed on two years ago, messages sent, friendship struck, roots were pretty deep. The relationship was so strong and the trust so steady that we actually talked on the phone (both regular and sexually). We had a definite connection between us.
For the past two weeks, zilch. Nothing. I didn't think something would affect me like this but it has. It makes the silence more deafening.
The self-pity I feel will be short lived. I know the conversations will continue as the pendulum swings back in my favor. I make new friends in hopes they will pick up the dialogue again. And sooner than I think, the contacts will be made, and all will be fine in my little corner of xHamster.
To quote Anais Nin: "Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
So leave me a comment if you're in the same boat as me. I promise I'll return your message, thus creating new worlds and friends simultaneously.
I've added over 800 women to my list. Different regions, nationalities, sexual tastes, and ages. No matter what time of day it is, there's usually 50 or 60 of my friends online so there's never a chance of missing a chance to talk to new people. Mission accomplished, right?
Hardly.
There have been great times when I have many different conversations going on with different women - the stream of messages is unending. Many times it's simple stuff like what kind of videos they like to masturbate to, real life stuff like bad experiences with others here at xHamster, and occasionally it's stimulating stuff - both mentally and sexually; the kind of conversation that will make you stay awake past your bedtime and then some.
Then there are times when those same people you've been in contact with - the ones you think are your "friends", the ones you've had casual adult conversations with, the ones whose words you've looked forward to reading simply don't return messages. They ignore you, blow you off, turn the other cheek, because they'd rather speak to someone else, are busy pleasuring themselves to a video because it's faster, or just don't want to be bothered by someone.
This is one of those times for me.
Not sure how to take this. I have made friends that I've made connections with, spoken to at length, gotten good vibes from. And now, ice cold. Am I that monumentally dull? Can plain ordinary non-sexual chat survive on a porn site? What can I do to spice things up? Should I spice things up and be someone I'm not?
Breaking point: I met a woman here online almost when I signed on two years ago, messages sent, friendship struck, roots were pretty deep. The relationship was so strong and the trust so steady that we actually talked on the phone (both regular and sexually). We had a definite connection between us.
For the past two weeks, zilch. Nothing. I didn't think something would affect me like this but it has. It makes the silence more deafening.
The self-pity I feel will be short lived. I know the conversations will continue as the pendulum swings back in my favor. I make new friends in hopes they will pick up the dialogue again. And sooner than I think, the contacts will be made, and all will be fine in my little corner of xHamster.
To quote Anais Nin: "Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
So leave me a comment if you're in the same boat as me. I promise I'll return your message, thus creating new worlds and friends simultaneously.
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