Definition of Casual Dating?
Hi guys. I know you were expecting a juicy blog post about my night with Josh, but after chatting a bit with somebody, I have to let something off my chest.
What is your definition of casual dating?
To me, it's just going on dates with somebody, having a good time, without the hassles of a relationship, without the risk of being hurt like you could be in a relationship.
Before Josh, I had two boyfriends,(first one was at 16: 1 year, and second one was at 17: almost two years. Both were shitty. The first one was a jerk and the second one cheated on me within a year, but somehow he managed to persuade me to stay with him. After we broke up, I guess I kind of stopped being this good girl and started to walk on the wild-side. I joined this site, not to actually get a relationship, but maybe do some chatting, explore what I like(looking at videos and stuff), without having to go the extra yard of doing it with somebody.. So, when I reunited with Josh, I just went for it. I lost all my inhibitions, and for once thought about myself, and what I wanted. So, I had sex with Josh, and with Luke (at separate times of course), and I had fun for the first time. I wasn't in a relationship with either of them. But does this make me a bad person? Does it make me a deceitful person by dating the both of them, even though I'm not committed to either one? Is it bad that for once I'm thinking of myself for once? Now I'm sad....
What is your definition of casual dating?
To me, it's just going on dates with somebody, having a good time, without the hassles of a relationship, without the risk of being hurt like you could be in a relationship.
Before Josh, I had two boyfriends,(first one was at 16: 1 year, and second one was at 17: almost two years. Both were shitty. The first one was a jerk and the second one cheated on me within a year, but somehow he managed to persuade me to stay with him. After we broke up, I guess I kind of stopped being this good girl and started to walk on the wild-side. I joined this site, not to actually get a relationship, but maybe do some chatting, explore what I like(looking at videos and stuff), without having to go the extra yard of doing it with somebody.. So, when I reunited with Josh, I just went for it. I lost all my inhibitions, and for once thought about myself, and what I wanted. So, I had sex with Josh, and with Luke (at separate times of course), and I had fun for the first time. I wasn't in a relationship with either of them. But does this make me a bad person? Does it make me a deceitful person by dating the both of them, even though I'm not committed to either one? Is it bad that for once I'm thinking of myself for once? Now I'm sad....
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