Interracial Dating-Question at the end
Hey Guys ^_^
This is gonna be short post because it's currently 1:08 a.m. and I'm super tired. But.... this has been bothering me all day.
So today, I was with Josh, he apologized for being so late for our dinner date and life is too short to hold a grudge. We were walking around downtown on my break for lunch when suddenly, three black guys were making whistling noises from behind us. Of course I turn around to see what the fuss is about, Josh does as well. What I saw were these three men making obscene gestures to me and one actually had the audacity to say 'You need some black dick in your life' I... was... furious. Now, like I said, I'm very sweet, but one thing I will not tolerate is being disrespected. I still had my emotions in check, however Josh can have a bit of a temper and this was one of those times. "What the fuck did you say?", he asked, as calm as I have ever seen him before. Now this was an invitation for these three. Like I suspected they got in his face, while I tried to calm the situation down. Among the argument these are the parts that I caught: 'You need to stick to yo' own fuckin women, cracker', 'Go back to the suburbs, white boy' One directed at me. 'Bitch think she too good for black men' Now this set me off and before I knew it Josh was the one holding me back. I think I'm too good for black men?! I had never heard such fuckery in my life. It made me so angry that I began a slew of curses that would make a sailor blush. After what seemed like hours of anger, a police officer came along and broke us up, not before I shoved one of they guys.
I was so angry. 1) Unfortunately this is not the first time this has happened. When you live in the south, you sometimes become a target if you dare to be in an interracial relationship. The same thing happened with my first boyfriend and he got into a fight over it, which put a huge strain over our relationship. 2)These guys..... they were so ignorant-ignorant. I couldn't believe that this was even happening. I'm not gonna lie, I get some backlash for my attraction to white guys, even from my family and friends. 'Why don't you every try a black guy?' I have, didn't like it, but that wasn't the reason that I turned away from the black race completely, the opportunity just never came for me to have a chance with another black guy. If one were to come and if I am single by then, of course I will try. What people fail to realize is that I don't pay attention to race. I'm not attracted to skin tone. I'm attracted to facial features. If the map of your face is attractive in my eyes, then I like you. It does not matter if your black, white, asian, hispanic, etc. I have been attracted to black guys before, but like I said before, the opportunity never came.
I'm so sick of people saying that I act like I'm too good for black guys, mainly I'm sick of some black guys telling me that. I don't need black dick in my life, if I want it, I'll let you know. People ask me why I only date white guys. Honestly, I can't give you a real reason. I guess you could say its coincidence. In my bio, I say that I'm mostly attracted to white guys. I guess that's because based on my dating history and being nothing but white guys, I guess I get automatically drawn to them more than other skin colors because that's what I'm used to, that's what I'm comfortable with. It's like liking a certain drink at Starbucks, you're automatically going to consider drinking that certain drink and maybe every once in a while you get different flavor.
Like I said before, more attracted to white guys because I'm used to them, they happen to be the only color of my past boyfriends. I was attracted to their facial features, not their skin, their skin just happened to be a coincidence :P
I just wish that interracial couples could be together in peace and not be chastised because people think they should be with their own color. I have the right to date any color that I choose, and I wish that people would know that.
So I have a question to ask you.
Do you like interracial couples, or do you hate seeing them?
This is gonna be short post because it's currently 1:08 a.m. and I'm super tired. But.... this has been bothering me all day.
So today, I was with Josh, he apologized for being so late for our dinner date and life is too short to hold a grudge. We were walking around downtown on my break for lunch when suddenly, three black guys were making whistling noises from behind us. Of course I turn around to see what the fuss is about, Josh does as well. What I saw were these three men making obscene gestures to me and one actually had the audacity to say 'You need some black dick in your life' I... was... furious. Now, like I said, I'm very sweet, but one thing I will not tolerate is being disrespected. I still had my emotions in check, however Josh can have a bit of a temper and this was one of those times. "What the fuck did you say?", he asked, as calm as I have ever seen him before. Now this was an invitation for these three. Like I suspected they got in his face, while I tried to calm the situation down. Among the argument these are the parts that I caught: 'You need to stick to yo' own fuckin women, cracker', 'Go back to the suburbs, white boy' One directed at me. 'Bitch think she too good for black men' Now this set me off and before I knew it Josh was the one holding me back. I think I'm too good for black men?! I had never heard such fuckery in my life. It made me so angry that I began a slew of curses that would make a sailor blush. After what seemed like hours of anger, a police officer came along and broke us up, not before I shoved one of they guys.
I was so angry. 1) Unfortunately this is not the first time this has happened. When you live in the south, you sometimes become a target if you dare to be in an interracial relationship. The same thing happened with my first boyfriend and he got into a fight over it, which put a huge strain over our relationship. 2)These guys..... they were so ignorant-ignorant. I couldn't believe that this was even happening. I'm not gonna lie, I get some backlash for my attraction to white guys, even from my family and friends. 'Why don't you every try a black guy?' I have, didn't like it, but that wasn't the reason that I turned away from the black race completely, the opportunity just never came for me to have a chance with another black guy. If one were to come and if I am single by then, of course I will try. What people fail to realize is that I don't pay attention to race. I'm not attracted to skin tone. I'm attracted to facial features. If the map of your face is attractive in my eyes, then I like you. It does not matter if your black, white, asian, hispanic, etc. I have been attracted to black guys before, but like I said before, the opportunity never came.
I'm so sick of people saying that I act like I'm too good for black guys, mainly I'm sick of some black guys telling me that. I don't need black dick in my life, if I want it, I'll let you know. People ask me why I only date white guys. Honestly, I can't give you a real reason. I guess you could say its coincidence. In my bio, I say that I'm mostly attracted to white guys. I guess that's because based on my dating history and being nothing but white guys, I guess I get automatically drawn to them more than other skin colors because that's what I'm used to, that's what I'm comfortable with. It's like liking a certain drink at Starbucks, you're automatically going to consider drinking that certain drink and maybe every once in a while you get different flavor.
Like I said before, more attracted to white guys because I'm used to them, they happen to be the only color of my past boyfriends. I was attracted to their facial features, not their skin, their skin just happened to be a coincidence :P
I just wish that interracial couples could be together in peace and not be chastised because people think they should be with their own color. I have the right to date any color that I choose, and I wish that people would know that.
So I have a question to ask you.
Do you like interracial couples, or do you hate seeing them?
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