"Hey"

I know that a sex site ain´t the pinnacle of literature or imagination when writing to each other, but why do all think that a message simply saying "hey" is enough to catch ones attention? Especially when you have a good share of posts waiting for you each time you log on to the site.

If people really want to talk to me will I offer an advice, don´t just write a simply hey, write something that makes me turn me heard towards your message, and actually makes me wait on the reply with curiosity after I have written back on it.