Q&A
As promised the first Q&A section. We will do these every once in a while, every time enough questions have accumulated.
Q: My GF and I have recently started bondage and are both interested in breath play. How do we get started and what do we need?
A: You don't get started. At lest not by yourself. Breath play, if done wrong, can be very dangerous and should not be done by amateurs unless supervised by someone with experience. Search for an SM club near you and approach them about it, they usually help interested newcomers out. If possible, check for classes, many clubs offer them.
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Q: during our third session my wife started crying uncontrollably so I untied her and stopped. Later she complained about it. How do I know when i'm taking it too far and when it's just part of the game?
A: That's what the safeword is for. There are all kinds of subs, some have a slave-like character, obeying every command. Others fight back, cry and curse you. It's part of the game and for her it's an important part of the experience. So unless she uses the safeword, she's ok with what you are doing.
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Q: Thanks for the work, it really helped us move things along. So... My girlfriend liked being a sub, but only to some degree. How can I convince her to try some of the more intense things?
A: I can only repeat myself. Approach her about it, tell her exactly what it is you have in mind and wait for her reaction. If it's a hard limit for her, you're gonna have a tough time selling the idea. Just let your relationship progress naturally and see where it leads. It takes time.
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Q: my girlfriend appears to be a "roper". What kind of rope is best for bondage and where do I get it?
A: the type of rope depends on her personal preferences. Some like a smooth nylon rope, others prefer a rough natural rope. Most sex shops with a SM section sell ropes, but personally, I get mine at a home supply store. There you have more choices and the price is considerably lower. The same goes for chains and many other basic supplies.
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Q: your blog didn't cover my type at all! I'm into (insert personal kink here)! What's up with that!?
A: Like I said in the blog, it was based on my personal experiences. If I haven't dealt with (insert kink) before, obviously I can't write about my experiences with it. Read before you complain folks!
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Q: When is the next part of the stores due?
A: I know, I'm behind my usual schedule. But there is a reason for it. As long as people keep stealing our work and pass it of as their own, no more releases. We are sharing some of our most intimate memories with you, not to mention all the time that goes into it, so the least we expect is for you to respect that.
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Q: I'd really like to see some pictures or videos of the girls. When will you post those?
A: we won't. It's as simple as that. All of us have very public positions and we are NOT going to risk our jobs to ease your curiosity. Call us fake all you want, that won't change our minds.
Q: My GF and I have recently started bondage and are both interested in breath play. How do we get started and what do we need?
A: You don't get started. At lest not by yourself. Breath play, if done wrong, can be very dangerous and should not be done by amateurs unless supervised by someone with experience. Search for an SM club near you and approach them about it, they usually help interested newcomers out. If possible, check for classes, many clubs offer them.
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Q: during our third session my wife started crying uncontrollably so I untied her and stopped. Later she complained about it. How do I know when i'm taking it too far and when it's just part of the game?
A: That's what the safeword is for. There are all kinds of subs, some have a slave-like character, obeying every command. Others fight back, cry and curse you. It's part of the game and for her it's an important part of the experience. So unless she uses the safeword, she's ok with what you are doing.
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Q: Thanks for the work, it really helped us move things along. So... My girlfriend liked being a sub, but only to some degree. How can I convince her to try some of the more intense things?
A: I can only repeat myself. Approach her about it, tell her exactly what it is you have in mind and wait for her reaction. If it's a hard limit for her, you're gonna have a tough time selling the idea. Just let your relationship progress naturally and see where it leads. It takes time.
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Q: my girlfriend appears to be a "roper". What kind of rope is best for bondage and where do I get it?
A: the type of rope depends on her personal preferences. Some like a smooth nylon rope, others prefer a rough natural rope. Most sex shops with a SM section sell ropes, but personally, I get mine at a home supply store. There you have more choices and the price is considerably lower. The same goes for chains and many other basic supplies.
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Q: your blog didn't cover my type at all! I'm into (insert personal kink here)! What's up with that!?
A: Like I said in the blog, it was based on my personal experiences. If I haven't dealt with (insert kink) before, obviously I can't write about my experiences with it. Read before you complain folks!
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Q: When is the next part of the stores due?
A: I know, I'm behind my usual schedule. But there is a reason for it. As long as people keep stealing our work and pass it of as their own, no more releases. We are sharing some of our most intimate memories with you, not to mention all the time that goes into it, so the least we expect is for you to respect that.
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Q: I'd really like to see some pictures or videos of the girls. When will you post those?
A: we won't. It's as simple as that. All of us have very public positions and we are NOT going to risk our jobs to ease your curiosity. Call us fake all you want, that won't change our minds.
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