Men of xhamster: Do yourselves a favor...

and calm the fuck down. With the ratio of men-to-women probably already sitting at 100:1 or more, why does it seem like so many of you are hell-bent on driving the remaining women off of this site?(gay men not included, of course. This isnt directed at you guys.)It seems like every week, someone on my friend list has decided to close her account, and if Im able to catch her before she does so and ask her why, 99% of the time they give the same reason: disrespectful men. And lets not forget about the tons of women who dont even last a few hours before being scared off. Guys, I understand that you may feel as if youre being ignored because she wont respond to your messages or comments, or she wont add you as a friend. I understand that some of the women here are fake, or love the massive amounts of attention that they get, or they may even be genuinely shitty people. I get it, I really do. However, theres really no excuse to send someone a message a minute, then turn around and insult/demean her when she doesnt answer right away. It is very possible that she has hundreds of messages to deal with, or literally over a thousand friend invites (seen it myself.) With so many men vying for the attention of so few women, youre going to fall by the wayside sometimes. Thats really just how it is. Throwing a tantrum like a c***d and calling someone a miserable bitch, while it may make you feel better for a fraction of a second, is, in reality, doing nothing but ensuring that more and more women leave the site. Odds are, youre misdirecting your anger and causing interesting and intelligent people to leave. It is ridiculously counter-productive, and completely flies in the face of simple logic (isnt that something that so many men pride themselves on? Being logical?) So, in short, if youve sent three messages or so, and she doesnt answer within a few hours, just calm down, back off for a day or so, and try again later. If she still doesnt talk to you, just get over it and go talk to someone else. Oh, and stop hounding the lesbians. Seriously, cut that shit out. (Apparently, xhamster blogs dont like apostrophes)