Men, PLEASE read this!!
Look, I understand that this is an adult website, but still act like an adult, not a man-c#ild!!!
With the ratio of men-to-women probably already sitting at 100:1 or more, why does it seem like so many of you are hell-bent on driving the remaining women off of this site?(gay men not included, of course. This isn't directed at you guys at all.)It seems like every week, someone on my friend list has decided to close her account, and if I'm able to catch her before she does so and ask her why, 99% of the time they give the same reason: disrespectful men. And lets not forget about the tons of women who don't even last a few hours before being scared off!!
Guys, I understand that you may feel as if you're being ignored because she wont respond to your messages or comments, or she wont add you as a friend. I understand that some of the women here are fake, or love the massive amounts of attention that they get, or they may even be genuinely shitty people. I get it, I really do. However, there's really no excuse, none whatsoever to send someone a message a minute, then turn around and insult/demean her when she doesn't answer right away. It is very possible that she has hundreds of messages to deal with, or literally over a thousand friend invites (seen it myself.) With so many men vying for the attention of so few women, you're going to fall by the wayside sometimes. Thats really just how it is. Throwing a tantrum like a goddamn baby with NO LIFE and calling someone a miserable bitch, while it may make you feel better for a fraction of a second, is, in reality, doing nothing but ensuring that more and more women leave the site and on top of that give Odds are, you're misdirecting your anger and causing interesting and intelligent people to leave. It is ridiculously counter-productive, and completely flies in the face of simple logic!! (Isn't that something that so many men pride themselves on? Being logical?)
So, in short, if you've sent three messages or so, and she doesn't answer within a few hours, just calm down, back off for a day or so, and try again later. If she still doesn't talk to you, just get over it and go talk to someone else.
Also, Even though this is a sex website, we are still human and still have our likes and dislikes. The main purpose about a profile is that it explains the likes and dislikes of that person as well as turn ons and offs. PLEASE take the time to read profile so you won't get any backlash. And saying that you are "too horny" to read, really means that you are too c#ildish and NOT worth my time.
And finally PLEASE for the sake of everything holy, be respectful!! When a lady says NO, DEAL WITH IT!! NO MEANS NO!!!!!
With the ratio of men-to-women probably already sitting at 100:1 or more, why does it seem like so many of you are hell-bent on driving the remaining women off of this site?(gay men not included, of course. This isn't directed at you guys at all.)It seems like every week, someone on my friend list has decided to close her account, and if I'm able to catch her before she does so and ask her why, 99% of the time they give the same reason: disrespectful men. And lets not forget about the tons of women who don't even last a few hours before being scared off!!
Guys, I understand that you may feel as if you're being ignored because she wont respond to your messages or comments, or she wont add you as a friend. I understand that some of the women here are fake, or love the massive amounts of attention that they get, or they may even be genuinely shitty people. I get it, I really do. However, there's really no excuse, none whatsoever to send someone a message a minute, then turn around and insult/demean her when she doesn't answer right away. It is very possible that she has hundreds of messages to deal with, or literally over a thousand friend invites (seen it myself.) With so many men vying for the attention of so few women, you're going to fall by the wayside sometimes. Thats really just how it is. Throwing a tantrum like a goddamn baby with NO LIFE and calling someone a miserable bitch, while it may make you feel better for a fraction of a second, is, in reality, doing nothing but ensuring that more and more women leave the site and on top of that give Odds are, you're misdirecting your anger and causing interesting and intelligent people to leave. It is ridiculously counter-productive, and completely flies in the face of simple logic!! (Isn't that something that so many men pride themselves on? Being logical?)
So, in short, if you've sent three messages or so, and she doesn't answer within a few hours, just calm down, back off for a day or so, and try again later. If she still doesn't talk to you, just get over it and go talk to someone else.
Also, Even though this is a sex website, we are still human and still have our likes and dislikes. The main purpose about a profile is that it explains the likes and dislikes of that person as well as turn ons and offs. PLEASE take the time to read profile so you won't get any backlash. And saying that you are "too horny" to read, really means that you are too c#ildish and NOT worth my time.
And finally PLEASE for the sake of everything holy, be respectful!! When a lady says NO, DEAL WITH IT!! NO MEANS NO!!!!!
12年前
