Friend Requests

For the longest time I kept my profile private, except for friends. Now I try to keep it open to registered Xhamster members. Easy enough requirement just enter a valid email address yada yada and then you can see what I have as far as original content. But when I get a friend request it sometimes bothers me because a friend is someone I feel I should be able to have some type of connection with, maybe not even sexual it may be our taste in music, movies, video games...you get the point. So I ask the whole of Xhamster am I being too strict or taking it too seriously. Or am I trying to prevent from having a profile using my images on some other site or hell even some random ********** ad.

Should I be like some others I have witnessed and require a minimum of a message from the person first or a video comment.

And if you send a request and I can't view your profile because you are only visible to friends...or worse I go and see you've been on this site for almost a calendar year and you have done nothing but add friends, not even one favorite video or picture what does that say????