White men who love Black women- why?
So, I was on my lunch break at work when one of my coworkers joins me. We start talking and the topic of interracial dating comes up. Now, I've written a post before on this topic, however, this one is on a lighter note. Well, anyway, my coworker, we'll call him Jeremy. Jeremy (who happens to be white) is absolutely in love with black women, which, of course, is not a bad thing. So I thought I would ask for his reasons for being more attracted to black girls than any other race. His answer? Because their black. I didn't know what to really think of the answer. Surely that couldn't be the only reason why he liked black girls. Do we not have anything else to offer besides the color of our skin? I would have even taken that we have big butts (though not all of us do). But it was just simply because we were black. Now I know this answer does not define every white male who likes black women, but it made me wonder, besides skin color (??), what really makes black women appealing to the white men who like them more than white women (or any other race). With me personally, I've been told it's because I'm not loud-mouthed and ghetto like black girls usually are (not my words, but the person who told me this). This person described me as 'white-guy material', which is a term that I hated. I can't stand this stereotype that black women have bound to them- that we're this bunch of loud, ghetto, multi-colored weave having, different baby-daddies, food-stamp using, living in the hood things. We're much more than that, I think we're much different than that. The black female community is not always as it is portrayed on television shows like Maury and sites like Worldstar HipHop, though, don't get me wrong. there are some women like that. But we have much more to offer than just a big butt and being black. Some black women are some of the most intelligent, thoughtful, sweet and honest beings out there. What some may confuse as loud-mouth, could simply be a black woman being outspoken (after all, no one like's it when someone disagrees with them). I would never want somebody to date me just because I'm black. I don't want to be a trend for guys that are feeling daring. I want someone to date me for my personality, my intelligence, what I have to offer to their heart. Anyway, I'm rambling now (which is a very bad habit of mine) If you're interested comment, if not :P Whatever, free country (well... mostly)
11年前